penis extension

[inked_up_veteran]

I need some advice. I have an extremely small flacid penis. Its only about 1.5 inch long and when erect its only 4.5 inches in length and about the same in circumference so I have to use a penis extension sleeve to please a woman when having sex. I was wondering if this is a turn-off to women and how i should introduce it when having sex with a new partner. Please help me. I have been using the Doc Johnson strapless extension. I have posted this thread in another section, I'm hoping to get a better response this in this section.

[Ducy]

Ok here is the thing. Dont double post, because people can click up on the new post link and it will show all posts.

Anyways your penis is not small. It may not be crowl the warrior king but its not tiny. THe best way to introduce it. When you start fooling around, do it without the sleeve. Why? Because if you show the confidence in not using a sleeve. Woman will love it. Noting is more important than confidence in the bedroom. If you go up, chest out, thinking you can do it, you will get a better respone than a man who is nervous and lacking confidence.

[dancingdoc2]

Welcome to the SI101 Board and its Forums--all of them. Please do not post duplicate posts. You will find near the top of the screen a tab for "New Posts" in the blue bar. When people log on they click this to view/read all new posts on all forums since the last time they were here.

You have been given some sage advice in the original thread. I believe it is your insecurity or fragile male ego that is preventing you from accepting and valuing the information in those replies. Size is not important; what is is what you do with what Mother Nature has endowed you with. I recommend rereading the information in those replies and taking the information to heart.

Whether you are of Asian descent or some indigenous group from Mongoloid stock such as American Indian, Latino, Australian Aborigine, etc., or, simply that your gene pool determined that you would have a short penis is of little consequence in the overall scheme of things. You cannot successfully make one larger and when you consider that much of the world's male population have penises in this range, you are quite normal, and those populations continue to flourish.

I am sorry that the information you have been given is not what you want to hear; however, the truth is, and regardless of size, what matters is how you use your penis and that is universal. Here is the reverse logic:

Say you magically had a penis of some length you decide is adequate, moreover, say you meet lots of guys with the same and much longer members, I'll bet if you enter into a discussion with the group on this topic the majority would all complain that they are not large enough; a minority would agree with Brandye, our resident M.D. and me. To repeat, I recommend putting your time and effort into learning how to be a great lover in and out of bed. Begin your education by reading the many articles listed in the Index as well as the book: "The Joy of Sex".

[Suki2007]

First off, I just want to say that you are not in the small category. The average penis is between 4.5" and 5.5" and your circumference is also on par. I also want to say that the best lover I've had was your size, so it is much more how you use it than what size it is. The most sensitive nerve endings in the vagina are in the first 3 inches, so you have that area covered.

I would say that very few women would be turned off at your size. If your previous partner enjoyed it when you wore an extender, then good for you; you will do so if it pleases your next partner.

If you feel that you NEED to introduce it, I would be sure to talk about it before hand instead of just donning it mid-moment. You can always just discuss it once you feel that sex is on the horizon with your next partner. You can tell her how your past partner enjoyed it and if she wanted you to wear one, you would.

I hope that you don't stress over it. I honestly feel this is a non-issue unless you get together with a size queen. Instead of focusing on your size, I would suggest you read up online about different sexual techniques to gain confidence in your performance. It is all of the stuff leading up to penetration that gets us ladies hot and bothered. Get a woman all worked up and even a below average man will become a sex god.

Be confident and it will all work out. Best of luck to you.

[sera300]

The same/similar question is posted back in 10/07 & answered.