Inserting objects infatuation

[NewYork57]

Hi, I am infatuated with the idea of inserting objects, but my wife isn't nearly as eager as I am. Naturally we have a very healthy relationship and I would never make her do something she wasn't excited about or interested in doing.

My question is, are they any couples that play with inserting objects, and if so what got you interested in it? I would like to be able to give my wife real examples of people and their experiences, if they exist...otherwise this one may be relegated to my fantasy world forever!!!

Please Help!

[NewYork57]

I guess I should proof read better , to clarify the question was in regards to inserting objects into the vagina...

[Yariome]

Of course there are! Me and my girl do it all the time, espcially when I am eating her out I will let her insert whatever she wants into herself.

And of course there are a million other possibilities, but yes it's very common. I just wanted to please my girl, and knowing it takes me a long time to get in the mood, I will give her whatever she wants, to give her the time of her life. This is what got me into it, just wanting her to be happy... And more-so when we are done wish for bed like no other because she is so exausted... I love that feeling.

[NewYork57]

That is cool that she wanted to do it... With only the slightest of exceptions, I am willing to do whatever my wife will do that she enjoys. Only problem is...she doesn't think she will enjoy it and doesn't really want to do it.

Hence my dilema, What can I tell her that will put her at ease with the notion of inserting things inside her?

What sort of things does your wife enjoy having inserted inside her?

[sera300]

Look around your home for kitchen objects!!!

[Suki2007]

Well, you could always just ask her if she is willing to try it, just to see if she'll like it. Most likely, she is just being shy. Reassuring her that it would really turn you on, you think it would be really hot and if she didn't like it, you will stop will probably help some.

[dixie chick]

speaking as a wife, my husband sometimes likes to insert foreign objects during oral sex too, i don't mind. it's really no different than using dildos. just don't use anything that could hurt or cause other problems (nothing containing sugar!!) based on conversations with my friends i don't think it's all that uncommon. btw my favorite was an ice cube.

[Brandye]

You should see some of the stuff removed from all bodily orifices on a Saturday night at a big hospital emergency room! From that experience, I would say that anything lying around has been tried.

[Engage!]

ice cubes.... my wife loves ice cubes! I'm not really all that familiar with what she uses, because generally when we're together the only thing inserted into her is me. But when she's alone...... I don't know what all is possible.

[lustforlove]

i experimented with a hairbrush handle interesting experience.......