my boyfriend wont let me get a sex toy he thinks if i have one its because he isnt good enough and he wont accept it. i told him to buy me one and use it on me so it makes him see thing differently but he said why use a fake dick on you when i have my own dick he just doesnt get it. just the thought of him sticking something other than the usual in me turns me on and i can even use it to loosen up the other hole to get it ready for him since he doesnt do it right and it hurts. i even told him he can put it in one hole and use the other but then he thought i like two dicks stuck in me and that im not satisfyed with one. what do i do?
Tue, 06/14/2005 - 05:57
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sex toy+boyfriend
[QUOTE=Quote (DizzyGal @ June 14 2005,10:28)]you are right. im 18 but too embarassed to go and get one and i did ask him. i know that he would think he is too small so i even joked and told him i will get one smaller than him because he always hurts me because he is so big. and he has been away for 3 months i should have convinsed him before he left to get me one now hes coming back he will give me as much sex as i can handle so i cant ask again or he will think he doesnt satisfy me.[/QUOTE]
Well if you are to embarassed than you can order from this sites store because they don't label thier merchandise so the box won't have any indication of any kind
Also if he won't let you and you really want one then I would dump his sorry ass if I were you but if you don't want to leave him then I would reccomend hiding it like in a closet or something
My ex-bf was the same... actually, he was more against me masturbating. We used the sex toys together for a bit eventually. Anyway... if he really is paranoid, get a non-penis shaped on, like a bullet, that you can use on your clit whilst he is inside you. surely he cant be jealous of something that tiny!! if he really is against it, i still suggest you buy one anyway and use it on your own. They sure are a lot of fun!!! And shop online
always, shop online... hope this helps
You can always buy online...
Your boyfriend needs to be educated. Rawbob is right that there are many men who feel threatened by sex toys thinking you want other men or you're not satisfied with him. Talking to him outside of sex and trying to make him understand that they are just an extension of foreplay and lots of fun for both.
I love my sex toys but no way can it replace the real feel of a man. Both physically and emotionally.
I love to watch my dear wife f*** herself with her toys great turn no
hi, i dont see what the big problem is.Im a guy,and buy my girl loads of sex toys.The latest one being the magic wand..Fab piece of kit.
We have loads of fun.I lay back and wank,while my girl fucks herself with her toys.Some times i use her toys to pleasure her.It all leads up to wonderful sex.
Its called part of the fun.
I hope this helps,if not,buy one yourself off the net,and enjoy solo...xxx
Maybe you could go and get one, its really not that embaressing, just imagine all the weird people that must come into sex shops, Im sure a girl buying a dildo if very boring for someone who works there, anyway... maybe you could go get one before he gets back , (if is isn't already) and plan a nice evening for just the two of you and suprise him with it, show him how much fun you can have together....
Plus, no matter what guys think...even if the dildo/vibe is MUCH larger than them. I haven't found one that feels as good as the real thing. Im sure they have them out there, but way too expensive for me.
Just assure him its an "addition" to the bedroom not a replacement
you are right. im 18 but too embarassed to go and get one and i did ask him. i know that he would think he is too small so i even joked and told him i will get one smaller than him because he always hurts me because he is so big. and he has been away for 3 months i should have convinsed him before he left to get me one now hes coming back he will give me as much sex as i can handle so i cant ask again or he will think he doesnt satisfy me.
The key word here is BOYFRIEND!
It's YOUR body and YOUR decision! If he dosn't like the fact that you want to use a vibrator, or dildo, then HE has to get over it!
Now, i'm going to assume that you are asking him to buy it because you are eitehr too young or too embarassed!
Well, if you're too young, you're either going to have to find a gal friend to buy one for your or hold off till u are 18/21 (depending on what state you are in).
If you're too embarassed, then you have to just get over that or just let go of the idea of including a sex toy in your bedroom!
I will tell you, it's VERY common for some men to be intimidated by sex toys. As you will see, most dildo's/vibrators are 6+" or more in lenght. That means some men will fall short of the size of the toy you want to play with. The fragile male ego sometimes just can't handle comparison...when in fact, a toy is never ment to replace the real thing..rather..enhance the overal sexual experience.
He sounds pretty immature. I'd tell him to just get over himself and if he wants to continue seeing you and having sex, he better just relax or go home and jack off! (trust me, if a guy has a choice between having sex or playing with himself, he's gonna choose sex.)
STAND UP FOR YOURSELF!