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sex toy newbie fears

I hope this doesn't sound terribly silly but:

I'm really interested in buying a dildo, but I'm worried if I buy one that's longer or wider tahn my boyfriend's that I won't be able to be turned on by my boyfriend during intercourse anymore!!

Does this sound like an unfounded fear?? Should I buy a dildo and make sure that it's smaller than my man, or not buy one at all?

Yep, there comes a time in every young guy and gal's life when pleasuring oneself has to go the way of the teddybears and dollies. You feel it tugging at you to find yourself a mate.
Then after a while, you may want to work some of those old
ways back into your new life. My girlfriends were always curious to learn if I had looked at porn while mastrubating as a boy....even wanting to see some of those old magazines if I still had them. I wanted to see her use her vibe and show me
how she did it in order to cum.

The size of her vibes was never anything I worried about. She was always worried she would do or say the wrong thing
but soon got over that and was able to just be herself.

eDJ

I agree with Tessie - when I 1st bought a vibrator I made sure it was the same size/smaller than m
y boyfriend, so as not to scare him. Now we have more confidence and trust each other I've invested in a larger one- and my boyfriend doesnt mind - he loves to use it on me! And I definitely would NEVER substitute my boyfriend for a vibrator, no matter how powerful it is!

I have used dildo's for years and believe me I still prefer my man to one. Its just another way to add some fun and spice to your sex life.

Get your guy to use it on you and enjoy the best of both. My man loves using it on me and knowing he is causing the great feelings it brings.

Thanks so much rawbob!

Who knew that I could get such great advice about didlos from a man??

Trust us, you are NOT the only woman who's asked that question, so:

1) Remember, a dildo is not warm
2) there's a big diffrence between self-pleasure iwht a toy and feeling the body of your man on top of you wiht his hard penis inside
3) A penis dosn't need batteries
4) Your vagina will expand and contract to handle most any size penis/toy

Relax, enjoy! Toys are fun!

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