Hey im a slightly bigger gurl and i am seeing this guy, he is completly toned and works out at the gym everyday and has the nicest body i have everseen... for some reson he is still wanting to have sex with me and says he enjoys it.... but becuse im slightly bigger i am quite shy allthou i dont show it around him... i am.... we have been together so far 2times... should i still be worried about what he thinks of my body???
AND MAINLY.... i have never been in the "on top" position before was wondering would i have much trouble with it??? and would he get squashed??
please help. i would like to try this position.
He will not get squashed. Every couple must figure out what positions are good for them. You can only do this by trying. If your inner thighs are grossly heavy, you will have difficulty getting him into you. If not, should work just fine.
I agree with Brandye. He will not get smoooshed. Personally I prefer nothing but the bigger boned girls(dont ask why). That has to be the biggest turn on for me, especially if she has tits to fit her figure, and long hair, thats my favorite!!!!!!
Get on top of him and ride like a cowgirl, dont wear cheap underwear either. I suggest at first you do it facing away from him, your back toward him, it will feel better to you(I Promise), and will allow you to relax and feel comfortable about your body. Once you enjoy this wonderful position, you will feel like a million bucks, and your man will sence that, then the sky is the limit! HAVE FUN!!!! Let us know!
> should i still be worried about what he thinks of my body???
Worry? If he is enjoying the pleasure of your company and time spent together then you have nothing to worry about.
That he wants to spend time with you should be all the information you need to be happy.
[QUOTE=prettybee;150314]Hey im a slightly bigger gurl and i am seeing this guy, he is completly toned and works out at the gym everyday and has the nicest body i have everseen... for some reson he is still wanting to have sex with me and says he enjoys it.... but becuse im slightly bigger i am quite shy allthou i dont show it around him... i am.... we have been together so far 2times... should i still be worried about what he thinks of my body???
AND MAINLY.... i have never been in the "on top" position before was wondering would i have much trouble with it??? and would he get squashed??
please help. i would like to try this position.[/QUOTE]
hi pretty bee: my gf is also taller and heavier than me-and she also thinks that i have the nicest body that she has ever seen and i think the same about her :D
the on top position can be difficult for a bigger girl to start with but with some practice it feels realy great. when we do it with her on top, i lie back with a small but thick pillow under my hips; or lie on a rolled up duvet lengthwise under me; my gf then rides me like a horse- the trick is to thrust my hips upwards towards her. (without doing that i can barely reach her because her heavy thighs prevent her from going low enough when she straddles me)
Ok.. I haven't had sex with larger girls.. but what I've had from the two times the girl ontop is a little harder than guy ontop. Sometimes the girls worrie they arn't looking good, turning around is great for that, and it teases the guy (I love watching breasts move slightly as I **** a woman...) Once you get comfortable with that turn around. I lvoe nothing more than the mid-thrust-turnabout.. it usally makes me climax... also.. if he is spending time with you -outside- of the bedroom, he finds you rather attractive.. if other wise, he's a jerk, dump him, and find another guy