Here are a few that we like: sex toys(try a Trojan Vibrating Ring on your penis to drive her wild)-Other sex toys-mutual masterbation-of course oral sex-dirty talk-tell her what you want to do to her-massage-sex dvd's. Just to mention a few.

A nice massage is a good way to get things going and to just spend some time alone together. Leads into some great foreplay. I love massaging her back and butt while my penis gets some start to a little doggie action.

Does your community or one nearby have an adult motel???? Maybe we're more open minded here in California, however, there are two nice ones within an easy drive from us. One is about thirty minutes away and the other is about two hours distant. It is a nice change to have a heart-shaped Jacuzzi, mirrors on the ceiling, and water bed. Even if you do not have access to one of these venues, there is always a Motel 6 or some other inexpensive hide out available that is quiet and private--and different, not the same ol' bed in the same ol' room.

So far when asked either in this thread or others about what can we do to spice things up the answers albeit great, primarily focus on the main course; I want couples and mainly the fellas to think about the preparation of the feast. You should begin hours earlier and put some effort into the planning of the "menu".

One set of ideas are to:
* hug her from behind and whisper in her ear one or two things you have planned for later--in addition to words of affection. You want to plant a seed, guys, and whet her interest and excitement.
* Spread a trail of rose petals from pillow/bed, to the bedroom door or beyond.
* Place a piece of her favorite chocolate (or whatever) on her pillow.
* Line up your "instruments of love" on your side of the bed beforehand for her to see upon walking toward the bed--things like a vibrator, "love potion #9" (lube), massage oil, Ben-Wa balls, anal beads, etc.
* Blindfold, four scarfs/ropes
* Furry mitten
* Fleur D' Amour
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* Lastly, undress each other slowly and deliberately, spreading kisses and caresses as you go. She can be standing (preparing for a soak in the tub) or reclining; sitting doesn't suit the mood.
* Quiet time in the water
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(Please read my contribution to this thread)

If you have been following my posts the past several days you will see a purpose behind the help in several, that being to place much more importance and emphasis on the build up than the foreplay. Unless the two of you want a Quickie, please spend plenty of time with the preparation and the making out part of the process of making love. Do not brush over or sidestep the necessary requirement to kiss and caress each other all over with a sense of timelessness. The adage that "time flies when having fun" works here. Spending an hour just fooling around and taking your time to get undressed which is done in stages will in effect seem like moments.

I hope this gives you some great ideas and a plan to use in one form or another throughout your relationship. Got questions?

id be excited enough just to see my partner again after all that time lol
(but thats just me)

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