I've been looking for material to work on to get better at sex and was wondering if anybody could recommend anything. I found "2 girls teach sex" and "sex god method" but the websites both seem shady. It seems to me if something wasn't a scam, it would be available from more than just one website and it wouldn't be so expensive or marketed the way that they do. If anybody has used anything that they know is good, that would be great. Especially videos. Thanks in advance :)
Thu, 01/12/2012 - 19:45
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Sex self help
Your best bet is looking around this Board and, then, find a partner for practice!
There is a video called "Lovers' guide to sexual positions". I haven't really watched it, just a few minutes here and there for inspiration, but it might be of some use to you. However I think it is a bit similar to the animations here on the site but with commentaries to the positions spoken to you instead of written. I got it from a friend, so unfortunately I don't know where you can get it, but some quick googling will probably sort that out!
Otherwise do as Brandye suggests, have a look around this board. It contains a lot of really good stuff!
I agree with Brandye. All the videos will most likely be on a par with pornography and made to make money off of worried men. Whereas here, at this website, you get the answers for free and most of us who counsel are vastly experienced in the "passionate arts".
And there's nothing that teaches better than practice!
Sounds good. Thanks for the advice everyone :)
> I've been looking for material to work on to get better at sex
[QUOTE=Brandye;277070]Your best bet is looking around this Board and, then, find a partner for practice![/QUOTE]
Welcome to the SI101 Board and its Forums. I hope you will enjoy participating. Please begin by familiarizing yourself with the Index found at the top of the main screen. The Index contains links to helpful informative insightful, as well as how-to articles that discuss the most common questions and concerns people ask about. Knowledge is empowering, therefore, I recommend that you read each of the articles and add the information learned to what you already know. In addition, if you click on the site's Home Page you will find even more information.
If you truly are interested in becoming a world class lover, then take this to heart. Also, visit your local bookseller or library and get this long time standard: "The Joy of Sex" and study it cover to cover.
Lastly, relationships are partnerships and this includes the romantic and sexual aspects, also. Making love is not what we do to each other, it is what we do with and for each other, together. Communication and feedback are keys. Explore and learn together.
I hope this is of help. Got questions?
-doc
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;277088]I agree with Brandye. All the videos will most likely be on a par with pornography and made to make money off of worried men. Whereas here, at this website, you get the answers for free and most of us who counsel are vastly experienced in the "passionate arts".
And there's nothing that teaches better than practice![/QUOTE]
I agree. I had a closer look at that video I have, and it is more or less exactly the same thing as the animations on this website. So, I will have to withdraw my recommendation and instead say don't buy it, it's just money down the drain...
Cool. No questions for now. I've got work to do.