OK well im going to answer yur questions as BEST as i humanly can...
Personally, when i finger a girl, i get TWO maybe THREE things out of doing so... well #1) it helps to get the "juices" flowing i guess, spreading around that self lubrication so i can slip in easier during intercourse, also it gets a gurl a bit more turned on if u know what they like. #2) honesty fingering a girl turns ME ON... either because they moan, or pant, or w.e it just DOES, i like feeling the warmth and the wetness ((im wierd)) #3) SOMETIMES, if a gurl is tight, or she is a virgin or w.e the case may be a few fingers penetrating her Vagina before my penis does, makes things a bit less painful for her, AND me, its like trying to stick an erect penis into a soda bottle, its tight and it hurts...

OKKK now this is the most GENERAL SOB question you can ask.... HOW TO INITIATE SEX, or FOREPLAY... for some couples it starts as kissing, others its kissing, rubbing, sucking, and licking, others STILL its, kissing, rubbing, sucking licking, humping, pinching etc the LIST goes on... its what works for you... for me, i like to start out kissing, then work inside of the clothing to eventually get them off... umm to "wet her whistle" just a bit, i like to use my tongue on different parts of her body... ((and i KNOW ur reading this post babe, u KNOW u like it))... well... there isnt much of a point to go on cause there are ENDLESS ways to perform Foreplay.... other people will answer...

Ummmmmmmm i cant REALLY say as to WHY you are getting numb when your partner is sucking or licking you... MAYBE he's being a BIT too Rough.. cause women ARE delicate ESPECIALLY in those areas.... sometimes i forget how sensitive my g/f's breasts are and i hurt her sometimes, but im trying to be gentle... this really just depends on the woman ENTIRELY cause my other g/f i could bite DOWN on her breasts and it would feel good to her... i dont klnow really... we all have different bodies...

NOW.... last but not the least... the Enigma of all Enigmas..... WTF do guys like BOOBs................ HMMMM.... WELLLLLL.... WE DONT HAVE THEM... that's just a guess... umm i think it is entirely psychological because, in our society, well MOST of our society, excluding nudist colonies , showing flesh is arousing to MOST people, cause it is something that we dont SEE everyday, or get the chance to because BOOBS are most of the time covered up in some way or another... soooooooooo, i dont really know... i find them attractive... lmao.. maybe another guy will shed some light on this...

WELLLLLLLLL someone else post TOO cause i dont think i was enough... or even close... KEEP POSTING

-Rick

Skatergirl just to point out those questions you asked were all very generalized. Before you ask anything you need to understand that every man is different, every woman is different, and people are just....DIFFERENT. So that means you will get a LOT of different answers to the questions you asked.

-Mariah

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[QUOTE=Quote (Starbuck @ July 24 2005,15:38)]Wow thats a loaded question. not enough space here to answer that one. e-mail me at [email="starbuck50000@aol.com">starbuck50000@aol.com[/email] and I can give you all the info you need. I'm married so i'm not going to hit on you or anything , but I do know quite a bit after 30 years of being married to a great woman. I will keep it profesional but informative. [/QUOTE]
Last time I checked, there was plenty of space to answer those questions.