im 5'2 and 165 lbs my boyfriend is 6'4 and 325 lbs. Now as you can tell hes 14inches taller than me, and quite a big guy. ANd im short and imnot fat, but i do have alot of meat around the midsection.
my complaint is standing up dosnt work well cause of height differnce, and cowgirl dosent work well bacuase his stoamch and my stomach make it difficcult for alot of movement. doggy syle and me laying on my back feet in the air are the only thing that really work for us. I cant find sex any postitions that are specificly for tall/short couples and couples that have "thickness". Do any of you have any suggestions.
thank you.
http://www.sexinfo101.com/sp_spooning.shtml try this one I found it very good when i was pregnant..
Lose weight.
Nothing inhibits sex, over the long term, more than excess weight. You could both stand to lose a bit. Weight around the middle is particularly deleterious to long term health. Getting those bellies out of the way would open many possibilities in the bedroom. Nothing will make standing easier; that is a reality of height difference although with less weight between you, a stool could work wonders.
[QUOTE=Brandye;232357]Lose weight.
Nothing inhibits sex, over the long term, more than excess weight. You could both stand to lose a bit. Weight around the middle is particularly deleterious to long term health. Getting those bellies out of the way would open many possibilities in the bedroom. Nothing will make standing easier; that is a reality of height difference although with less weight between you, a stool could work wonders.[/QUOTE]
thanks....:( not exaclty as easy as it sounds....tried it...not working want somethign else for advice...anyways....
doggy style is the best option
[QUOTE=lover5050;232360]doggy style is the best option[/QUOTE]
yeah we both love doggy style. But i want something more peronal...where i can see him...:(
you might try something that i greatly enjoy with my boyfriend. try sitting on the edge of a table, one that is sturdily built. you can lay on it, or sit straight up, and he stands in front of you and does his thing. i'm 5'5'' and weigh about the same as you do (which i'm working on by eating healthier meals and portions, and also exercising more if i can). by sitting on the tabletop, it solves the height issue, and it relatively similar to the standing position. just be sure to put a cloth or something down, or wipe down the table afterwards. :)
I'm 5'9" 175 and my girl friend is 6'6" 280 and a small step stool has proven valuable during standup intimacy or doggy style with pillow under MY knees to even out things...
Yeah, it seems that instead of finding sexual positions for heavy people, it might be better for your health to lose some weight.
I would assume you're not suggesting that people not have sex before they lose the weight. The question wasn't "should I lose weight". The question was "how do I have sex while I'm heavy?"
i find that the bend knees and the girl riding on top is the best for kissing and being close, the guy puts his hands on the females bum straight down and let her ride you as the guy
Have you tried having him thrust while your on top?
I'm kind of shocked at some of the posts on here. This lady is asking advice for sex positions not if she and her b/f need to lose weight or not. I'm 5'1" and weigh 160 so I can't have sex cause I'm fat??!!!! I thought this was a site about sex not health issues.
[QUOTE=aili8447;238753]I'm kind of shocked at some of the posts on here. This lady is asking advice for sex positions not if she and her b/f need to lose weight or not. I'm 5'1" and weigh 160 so I can't have sex cause I'm fat??!!!! I thought this was a site about sex not health issues.[/QUOTE]
You have a valid point, but sex and health still go hand in hand. I'm not exactly small myself, but I still manage...
[QUOTE=Ratach;238778]You have a valid point, but sex and health still go hand in hand. I'm not exactly small myself, but I still manage...[/QUOTE]
Yes but it's been proven that you can be overweight AND be healthy. She probably would enjoy a better sex life if she lost weight but that wasn't the question and weight shouldn't have been brought up. That's just plain RUDE!! I can understand Brandye's viewpoint as a doc but she doesn't know the woman's health history or the man's history. The weight issue is between her, her lover, and their doctors and shouldn't have been brought up on a sex information board. If we were discussing weight issues on a health forum then it would be a different story but we're not.
[QUOTE=aili8447;238806]Yes but it's been proven that you can be overweight AND be healthy. She probably would enjoy a better sex life if she lost weight but that wasn't the question and weight shouldn't have been brought up. That's just plain RUDE!! I can understand Brandye's viewpoint as a doc but she doesn't know the woman's health history or the man's history. The weight issue is between her, her lover, and their doctors and shouldn't have been brought up on a sex information board. If we were discussing weight issues on a health forum then it would be a different story but we're not.[/QUOTE]
Agreed... I even recieved some negative rep on my post for no apparent reason... Weight is not an issue, I am overweight and have not had a problem. Missionary still works, Cowgirl still works, Reverse Cowgirl still works, there's one where you are at about a 45° angle and entering from behind that still works, and is very intimate too... Being overweight is not an issue, and should never have been made into one in the first place.
i like my curvy females bodies and there isnt thing wrong with that, there is many sex positions and things you can do being overweight
Well...From my personal experience...When my fiance wask about 210ish at 5'7...it made things hard (at that time I was 5'2 at 200...not pretty) What I've noticed is that those really slutty heels help out if you want to do a standing doggy style...it cuts out the slight humor of one of you having to stand on a foot stool...we've also tried a missionary...just moving the legs around, wrapping them around him, or basically bending them to where you can lick your own knee during sex. Also, another thing that helps...is just being completely random and using your immagination...there is no limit when you mix fun, and immagination, and a bed (or living room floor). Hope this helps:)
I'm just reading my old messages. I have no idea why I would say that, and putting it that way sounds so rude.
I'm so sorry!
I'm guessing I was trying to say that being overweight is more of an issue than having boring sex, but that's not the issue, you're right.
Apologies again.
Hi,
yah this is more just about height issues
my gf and i are just touching the water with the whole sex thing
& we both like getting into it with each another
but when it comes to the sex itself, there are only a few positions
we know of that work for such us
im 6'2 shes 5'2
so when we touch below
her being under me , her head is at my chest making it not as enjoyable for us
so what kinda positions out there can make for a more pleasurable face to face experience??
I'm 5' 11" and my gf's 5' 4" . We prefer missionary, and sometimes doggy style (but I've never climaxed doing DS). I've thought of a few alterations of missionary for us when the time comes but we are happy with what we can do.
Forget positions - yes, really!
What you need to study up on are angles. Such as "what is the best angle to use when trying to stimulate her G-Spot with the head of my penis?"
So, to do the example correctly, consider how your penis is curved, consider your skill level at caressing her G-Spot with your penis, where her G-Spot is currently in relation to where you are and then maneuver yourself (and maybe her as well) to get just the right angle.
Please find, read and then do the sticky post entitled The Program for further information.
Note that your height, weight, gender, age, fitness level, race, religion, ethnicity, et al, are ALL irrelevant. You ALL can do this.
My boyfriend and I are about 4 inches apart, in addition I am 370lbs and he is also overweight- with a large gut. His penis is is about 5.5in long and we're having great difficulty finding positions that work- we've been doing research but not had much luck-- any suggestions would be greatly appreciated!
forget the four inches. Forget the five and a half. At 370 pounds, there are no good positions. Add his belly and it becomes nearly impossible to have genital to genital contact. My suspicion is that you do not even allow entrance to your vagina; the folds are where he is depositing his semen.
Suggestion: both lose weight and you will find that much more than your sex life will be improved.
aili8447 posted that six months ago and it was discussed. I can assure you that any woman weighing 370 pounds is a health disaster AND is limiting her sexual desire, ability and response. So, what is the difference? Grossly overweight women do limit their ability to gain sexual satisfaction. Same for men.
ashok, go away you are rude and off point most of the time.
Dear Greenglue,
Welcome to this forum! There is a sexpositionguide that you might like to look at:http://www.sexinfo101.com/sp_index.shtml
370 pounds? I'm worried about you, girl! Off course everyone should be able to enjoy sex. And I sure hope you do! :) But this sounds like not your sexlife, but your life is in danger. I must admit I'm not very familiar with your measurementsystem in pounds and inches. But if my calculators are doing their job right, even the tallest people in the world would be dangerously heavy. Only bodybuilders/boxers would perhaps still be considered healthy, because the extra weight is pure muscle...