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> As I have problems coming sometimes, I am interested to know sex positions that stimulate the glans of the man a lot. Any ideas?

First, how easily are you able to masturbate and ejaculate?
Second, do you rub the Frenulum when nearing the trigger point of a climax?
Third, do you know how many hot-spots you have around the Corona Rim, and, do you rub one or more of these when about to ejaculate?
Fourth, how often do you masturbate? For example: once a day, once every couple of days, more than twice a day? **
Fifth, how much time do the two of you devote to--
(a) necking
(b) petting
(c) heavy petting
(d) foreplay

Even without yet having your answers, my experience with others who have the same complaint is that this is a problem regarding technique and not anything necessarily wrong with them. Nowadays, a lot of fellas have the misguided misconception that the best way to an orgasm is from lots and Lots and LOTS and LOTS of stroking. WRONG. This is what all the fooling around and making out are for, before ever getting to the Foreplay stage and then Intercourse. You should not enter your partner until invited, and certainly not until you have been brought to the peak of your arousal, yet not so close that you lose control while shifting around into position.

If the two of you are devoting less than half an hour to the fifth question, then you are moving much too quickly. Females of the species are wired differently than males. While we can be UP and ready to go in a matter of minutes, not so the fairer gender. Women require much more time and attention to kissing, touching, and, caressing, in general than do we. If you are not spending at least a half hour working on your partner's arousal, you are moving too quickly. Men also benefit from all this time and attention!

Many women report that if intercourse lasts longer than about ten minutes they become SORE, bored, and, tired; therefore, if you are stroking away for much of this time or longer, there is a problem with how you are doing what you are doing. Guys should be able to climax within two-three minutes. That you opt not to is a different matter. **(Fourth} If you generally masturbate a lot, and certainly within three hours of having sex with your partner, that you dial this way back. In order to maintain the sensitivity of your penis, try not masturbating for a day, or perhaps two, before having intercourse. Do things this way until you have established a base line for what works and how well. By holding off masturbating for a day, you dramatically increase your level of sexual tension and this will both shorten the time required to bring about a climax, and, make doing so much easier.

I recommend that the two of you have a look at the many sexual positions illustrated on the Home Page and try several and learn which ones please you. It is important to know that the inside of the vagina increases in circumference as a woman becomes sexually aroused. When this happens there is often less contact between the penis and vaginal wall. This is another reason why it is important to reach the brink of your orgasm before entering.

Unfortunately, there is no one ideal position because much depends upon the size as well as the angle of a penis, not to mention how aroused you are at this moment. So, I recommend that you work on technique, first and foremost, then evaluate different positions, starting with the Missionary, then, others that intrigue you.

I hope this is of help. Got questions?

-doc

Doggystyle sometimes stimulates the glands guess. If the girl has very soft hands when she gives you a blowjob or handjob she can use the palm of her hand and swirl it around in a cirular motion on your dick head this will definitely drive you crazy and u will cum. Try letting your girl mount you in the cow girl position.

> If the girl has very soft hands when she gives you a blowjob or handjob she can use the palm of her hand and swirl it around in a cirular motion on your dick head this will definitely drive you crazy and u will cum.

"Crazy" we want for him; "cum" we want him to be able to hold off just long enough for him to enter and do a few strokes.

This can be done with either the man or woman on top. Learning is easier with him on top.
After he is taken in, the woman closes her legs with his legs outside hers. This does limit depth of penetration but puts more pressure on the entire length of the penis. Most importantly, it places the thickest part of the penis, the flans, in the narrowest part of her vagina, the entrance. Some slight adjustment may be requires but this will do what you want.

Bonus: The penis will be sliding across her clitoris.