Hi
my bf and i are talking about having sex, and we were just wondering what position/s would be best to try first? the thing is he is about 18 stone and 6 foot 2 so he's a pretty big guy, i mean i absolutely love him to peices but as i'm such a small person, 9 stone and 5 foot 4, missionary is probably out of the question and i'm kinda nervous for full on cowgirl, so we were wondering if there were a few positions we could try?
Mon, 04/19/2010 - 21:06
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Sex positions for the corpulent man and the thin woman.
If he can kneel between your thighs and thrust using his lower back - you can do missionary. Far to many think missionary is him actually lying on top of you and NO it isn't. All gentlemen support themselves using arms or elbows. More to the point - forget 'positions' and just go and warp the man's mind by giving him all the wild passionate sex he can handle and then just a little bit more.
For starters, go for the female superior. You can get to anything you want later but, until you learn one another, you are better off on top. Do not try to bounce up and down unless you are a gymnast or figure skater - you will tire in no time. Lean forward, place your hands on his chest and start a rocking motion. Throw in a few grinds and you two will be on your way.
For a long term relationship, encourage him to lose a few stone.
The partner that felt the heaviest on top of me happened to be skinniest of them all. He just had no understanding of supporting his own body weight. Missionary position can be very enjoyable with a big man. Who knows, with plenty of hot sex he might no find the time to eat as much and the extra activity might just help him to lose a few pounds.
I've weighed about that much before and while my partner wasn't as small as you we certainly had no trouble with any position our devious minds could come up with. My favorites were:
Anything with her on top (but that might as well be it's own fetish)
Doggystyle! For a very good bounce effect and to cut down on bruising to my pubis, I had her put her legs together and I put mine outside of her legs. Makes things feel a bit tighter too, for what that's worth.
Anything standing.
Me on top with her legs either on my shoulders or folded across her chest (she claimed to have had her best orgasms from this one, I however loved the depth that was offered).
Sitting, with her on top of me facing me.
Now all of these depend on just how much of a sex-god he is. Despite the fact that at that point in time I weighed the same, I had plenty of stamina and strength and had no issue with being on top for an hour straight never once needing to rest my arms from holding myself up. The only 'family' of positions that gave us trouble are the ones that involve laying down side by side, but they were do-able albeit difficult. Maybe I simply carry my weight well, or I'm a good enough of a lay to handle whatever may come my way.
Oddly enough nowadays I'm down to 16 stone and have much less stamina so it seems. Then again it could be that I haven't had a good lay worth pursuing...
Even during hot sweaty sex you only burn as much calories as a brisk walk, perhaps even less. It is a cardiovascular workout though :P As far as not eating, you know as well as anyone else that the best thing after a nice lay is a piece of chocolate :P
I always want a cuppa after sex, not chocolate.
What to eat/drink after a good hard cum is worth it's own thread :D
Water's always a good choice :P
[QUOTE=spaced;254284]What to eat/drink after a good hard cum is worth it's own thread :D
Water's always a good choice :P[/QUOTE]
I always have water by the bed, helps to stop my mouth drying out. :p