Once again sorry if my spelling or wording sucks
I would like to have yas opinions about sex partners. How do ya feel about having a sex partner you are not dating in other words a booty call like some call it?
Wed, 02/24/2010 - 04:53
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sex partners
More to the point, what do you think of a dial up booty call? Is there money exchanged or bartering?
It is what it is. If the arrangement works for the two people involved who are we as casual observers to opine?
If you decide to do this, set the ground rules, first.
No money exchange
I don’t rally know what bartering is sorry
I guess you can call it an agreement my friends call it a booty call
I enjoy it theirs no strings attached we both know the deal its not like we call each other just to have sex we kick it a lot watch movies ex we are good friends out sex life is just a plus to out friendship I guess you can say
My friends trip on it they see it as why are you fucking with someone that’s not your boyfriend
freinds with 'benefits'?.....may start out as a conveinient means to scratch that itch, but it will change a freindship, and it won't turn out to be good.
IMHO
AHEM - the terms are:
Booty call = fuck me and then get the hell out!, lust only
Friends with benefits = friends out of the bedroom with whom you have sex inside the bedroom, works with mature persons, lust & affection but not love
Boy/Girlfriend = men/women you date, may be more than one person, sex may or may not occur, exclusivity is NOT part of the deal, might become love
Fiance' = a serious relationship expected to lead to marriage, exclusivity IS part of the deal although sex may or may not occur, romantic love
Spouse = lifelong married mate, sex is part of the deal as are children (if possible), can be open = not exclusive, or closed = exclusive; deep abiding love for the spouse.
And I don't see what business it is of your friends anyway but there's nothing wrong with enjoying someone who is not your boyfriend.
Do a search on booty call. You will find a few posts where I admit to having a (short) call list.
sorry,
I don't do one night stands...
An inconsistentcy, Grey Shadow!
How could you?
"freinds with 'benefits'?.....may start out as a conveinient means to scratch that itch, but it will change a freindship, and it won't turn out to be good.
IMHO"
and
"sorry,
I don't do one night stands... "
Look,sweety, if you won't do one night stands (think of it as try-outs) then youre not going to get to FWB.
Booty calls are not usually for one night stands. There are more common routes to those. The calls are to men with whom there has been some history, not flipping open the directory and choosing a number to call.
[QUOTE=LiL_TrUbLe;252398]No money exchange
I don’t rally [sic] know what bartering is sorry[/QUOTE]
Bartering is an arrangement or agreement in which goods or services are directly exchanged for other goods and/or services without the exchange of or paying for those goods or services with money.
Most women have a list of "reliable" men - for use in emergencies.
You wouldn’t consider it making one look like a hoe or something ?
I enjoy it me and him have fun I have my booty call list I don’t consider my self a hoe or anything I am just experimenting and having fun
> You wouldn’t consider it making one look like a hoe or something ?
Speaking for myself, no. The definition of a prostitute is someone who exchanges sexual favors for payment. That a person has a listing of willing sexual partners who also want sex for sex sake is not anywhere close to the same thing.
BTW, I detest the term "hoe" which I think is even more degrading than "whore".
you got a good point
Why would I call a woman who embraces and enjoys her sexuality, when mutual pleasure is the only goal, a prostitute?
Only those who think sex is bad, debasing, and beastial could ever think such a thing.
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;252430]An inconsistentcy, Grey Shadow!
How could you?
"freinds with 'benefits'?.....may start out as a conveinient means to scratch that itch, but it will change a freindship, and it won't turn out to be good.
IMHO"
and
"sorry,
I don't do one night stands... "
Look,sweety, if you won't do one night stands (think of it as try-outs) then youre not going to get to FWB.[/QUOTE]
not inconsistant, I posed it as a question (thus the ?). In my younger days as a wild-n-crazy horn dog, I went for one nighters (ok, booty calls today)....even had a freind with bennies relation for awhile, those kinds of relationships don't work (for me).
They may not work out for you. You may want to ask yourself why or why not. May be not.
But they work very well for me.
Greyshadow,
You are not reading right. Booty calls are usually with established sex partners; one night stands are usually opportunistic encounters with relative strangers. Big difference.
[QUOTE=Brandye;252522]Greyshadow,
You are not reading right. Booty calls are usually with established sex partners; one night stands are usually opportunistic encounters with relative strangers. Big difference.[/QUOTE]
then I really have been out if circulation too long....oh, and my freind and I (from my first thread) had a long heart to heart talk and even though she would have it otherwise, she'll not pressure me and let things develop as they will, so when I'm ready and willing we can tke it to the next step, but for right now... :o
I thought they called them F**k Buddies :D
www.fuck-buddies.com/
That is a sometimes applied term that could be for fwb or someone on a bootye call list.