allright my bf and i are virgins and haha... we tried to have sex (okay, so I didn't try that hard... I was scared!) but he couldn't get inside of me. Is that normal? I mean, he had no problem at all fingering me. oh, and how long does the pain last? I mean the first couple of times you have sex for only like 5 mins after... or is it a constant pain? I don't do pain! God, I'm so scared... and the sad thing is I'm 18!!!