I have never had sex in a hot tub, pool, etc. For my boyfriend's birthday in a few weeks, I want to get a hotel room with a jacuzzi as a suprise. I want to make sure everything goes great. On other sites I have seen where it is more uncomfortable underwater because the natural lubrication is washed away. Does anyone have any advice, experiences, or tips to share? I want to make this a memorable birthday! :D
Sun, 05/07/2006 - 20:06
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Sex in a Hot Tub
My guess is that we all attempt it in a hot tub, bath tub, swimming pool, lake or whatever. And almost all of us discover it is just not worth it.
Start with you. When you are in a body of water, your inner lips seal you up and keep it all out. Spreading to admint a penis allows the water in with all the chemical, microbes and other tiny junk. It does, as you suggest, wash away lube. As the penis pumps, it is acting like a piston pump: each slide out allows a little water into you and each push shoves that into you.
I long ago gave up on sex in or under water. It is a good place to give blowjobs.
I think Brandye is right that we are all going to try it given the chance. I have tried it and have found that it's not so great to actually attempt sex while in water...for the reasons she mentioned, but also because the water makes you more bouyant and makes movement harder. I found it really hard to be on top while in a hot tub because you feel like you are going to float away, and trying to do any riding or thrusting motions are inhibited by the weight of the water against your body. Think of trying to run in a swimming pool and apply the same principal to the motions of sex.
However, I think that any kind of foreplay can be great while in the hot tub, pool, etc. It's a good place to set the mood, but as for doing the deed, I'd recommend doing it on dry land. Have some towels ready near the jacuzzi to make a smooth transition if you guys decide to get out and give up midway. Nothing kills the mood more than being soaking wet, freezing, and naked while having to search for a towel!
Well, Brandye, maybe it is just because I am a naturally hot guy, however, getting turned on in a hot tub of water just makes my blood boil and steam come out of my ears. It has been said that horses sweat, women "glow", and men perspire, yet in these situations my skin just gushes water.
Oh, please do not misunderstand, I do like renting hotel rooms with Jaccuzi tubs and mirrors on the ceiling and we have done so many times both in Sacramento and Lake Tahoe yet our enjoyment has mainly been preliminary so as not to become too over heated and weak.
So, Bunnygirl, take all this great advise and run with it to your nearest adult lair for some fun and frolic, however, I think you are well advised to just use the water for the preliminaries whatever they be.
Oh, one of the first times we did this, my wife blindfolded me and drove us on a circuitous route to the motel. I did not know what was on the agenda until opening the door and smelling the water. What fun.
Oh! and let me end with this: Do any of you know why water beds are the bane of a marriage?
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You just drift apart!
Thanks so much for the advice! From the pictures I have seen of the hotel rooms, the jacuzzi is right next to the bed, so that may be the best plan of action! I just want him to have a memorable birthday (for the right reasons!). Thanks!
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Oh! and let me end with this: Do any of you know why water beds are the bane of a marriage?
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You just drift apart![/QUOTE]
Did you get this joke from my dad?!?! LOL. Weak, dude. WEAK.
I agree with everyone else . Great place for a little oral fun, but leave the "full scale assault" to dry land. We've done it and succeeded in hot tubs, but most of the time I end up all but having a heat stroke and having to get out. By that time I can hardly breathe and the mood is gone as I'm gasping to stay alive.
"By that time I can hardly breathe and the mood is gone as I'm gasping to stay alive."
Wow, thanks for letting me know! It sounded like a lot of fun, but I think that will just be the preliminaries!
what about sea water ? could that be irritating or damage a condom ?
Yes. Think about all the other microbes and stuff that's found in sea water... yikes. You could have your own little microbe zoo going on down there. Plus, I suppose it's possible that salt water (if that's what you're talking about) could damage a condom. I just wouldn't try it.
SERIOUSLY...I've got to STOP drinking hottub water...ewwwwwwwwwwww :)
ok i knew it was a crazy thought it just occured to me I nevver realized that the vagina was "water tight"
If you do have sex in the hot tube, then a silicone lube can help since the water will not wash it off. The hot tub is a good place to get things started with manual stimulation and even oral. Wife and I were at a hotel one afternoon and in the hot tub which was just off the excercise room. With no-one around, she recieved some great oral by floating on her back with me supporting her butt and her legs over my shoulders. We had one person come in and could hear the key lock opening so we were able to sit back in the hot tub. She did return the favor with me sitting on the side of the hot tub and she worked on my cock. We did need to finish in the room however and it interupted the moment by getting out, grabbing towels and making our way back to the room. But we were so turned on that once we were in the room things went quickly. We were both hot from the hot tub and it took us awhile to cool off after finishing.
In our own hot tub it easier to get things started. We have had sex in the hot tub and use silicone based lube. It is great, but by the time we sit in the water and then get started with the sex, we are getting too hot from the water. The wife likes to turn and lean on the side and look out of the tub. Some of the time I will come up behind her when she is doing this and do some doggy style action. With lube this is great to have my penis rubbing between her ass cheeks. Without the lube though, this doesn't last very long. But is a good way to start some foreplay.
Great idea! I hope we will have that much fun! (I think we will!).
Bunnygirl, how about a report when you get back?
Gladly! I still have 2 weeks to go -- LDRs are hard sometimes! Oh well, I tend to start planning one adventure as soon as the last one ends!
Yes seriously dried me up...after awhile it just started hurting so no mas!
Sometimes I get by on planning things on short notice just to take advantage of the situation. Other long term planning is great but can take alot of time. Short term planning example was we were out boating and had been camping on the lake for days. Had everything packed and ready to go, but the kids wanted to do some last minute waterskiing. They took off in the boat so I jumped in the lake and got cleaned up with the idea that my wife would join me. she didn't join in and just rested in the cammp. So I walked up to the camp in just a towel and sat down in a chair across from her and let the towel fall open. After a short time I asked her to rub and stroke my penis. She said she couldn't reach it so I stood up and held the towel open since we were still next to the lake. Well that felt great and after a while I asked her to suck on it. She pulled me to her and went to work giving me a bj. At this point, I just let the towel drop so I could watch her at work and keep my hands free. So here I was with my butt to the lake and my wife sucking on my penis and the sun shinning on my body. Boy what a great feeling that was. So the water did lead to something, but all the action happened on dry ground. The hot tub could be a starting point and lead to some of the same type of action. Some quick planning made for a great time for me that day.
You all were right! Don't try it, it doesn't work too well. It is a great place to get started. We are in complete agreement -- a bed is by far the best place for sex (the bigger the bed the better!).
Actually we had a great time. We played in the hot tub, on the bed, went to dinner and had a long great night! I was more comfortable than I had been in a long time. I was even comfortable wandering around the room naked which is major progress for me. I am in the process of losing a lot of weight and until now was not that comfortable seeing me! Having a very loving, supportive bf is wonderful. Now my only problem is seeing him more frequently! Thanks for the input everyone!
A silicone based lube is the only way to accomplish anything in the hot tub as far as intercourse or serious finering and hand jobs. Sitting on the edge then lets the natural juices work. The hot tub does work good to relax and makes the rest of the sex great if you aren't too hot.
Congratulations on the great time and for losing weight. I know how hard losing weight is, but well worth it once it starts to go away.
just go for some exstensive biking - I did 60 Km the other day and that inncluded climbing 600 metres up into the hills where I live. no I'm not fat but do eat my fill and certainly burn it up hehe
I've found it IMPOSSIBLE to have sex in any water. Shower, Spa, Pool. I find it impossible as there's no lubrication and if I try and get it into the chick it hurts my cock head and her pussy. In Australia I have not ever seen any sillicone based lubricants so I have to throw that idea away. I really wanna do it in the ocean. Anyone have any solutions?
Any one else had any good times in the hot tub over the summer? For us with it being hot outside the hot tub is not as appealing. Plus with it being light longer, it gets harder to even do things on the edge of the hot tub. With the days getting shorter and cooler, it should open up some nice oral on the edge of the hot tub.
We love it in water it is so hot. Shower, pool, whever there is water. We have never had problems with lubrication and it always feels great. Just floating along together and the feeling of water all around you. It is definetly something to try and can understand why it is not right for everyone.
Wow.. only a few actually liked sex in water.. I have had one experance, though it was a little cold afterwards, (skiing trip! Alaska 2004) Me and my GF and her friend thought it was great.. I we never really "floated" of course they were usally proped up on the side for like 15 mins at a time, before it got nipply cold. But never the "floating" sensation. So.. mabye it's the style of the sex in the water and the lubricants or lack there of used?
Had a great little session in the hot tub just last week. We haven't taken many times lately to be intimate and were just relaxing in the hot tub so I decided to take advantage of it. Slipped my hand under her suit and gave her some hand stimulation. Then slipped her bottoms off and lifted her up to the surface so I could use my mouth on her. She put her legs over my shoulders and we had a good 10-15 minutes of me giving her oral sex. She could hardly wait to get out to finish up on the bed. The only problem was we had to take a little time to cool off before finishing. I was hoping she would give me a bj, but she was so turned on that she just needed to have intercourse as soon as we were cool enough. Maybe this week she can return the favor. I just love being naked in the hot tub. She always wears a suit, but I mostly just go in naked.