So my girlfirned and i really enjoy going at it. The sex is amazing. however she always seems to be sore after. so i tell her if were getting to rough or anyting let me know and ill take it easy but she says it dosnt hurt while were into it only after. its not an issue of lubrication she stays extremely wet all the time. so we cant really figure out what it is thats making her so sore after sex. especially because whatever it is isnt hurting her while were in the midst of it. Im about 7 1/2" - 8" we were thinking it may have something to do with that or maybe she migh just be small down there although it dosnt really seem like it. anyone have any ideas on what it could be or a way to remedy this? I really dont like her being in pain afterwards. sometimes its gets to the point where shell really want to go a few more rounds but it just hurts so she needs a day to rest.
Mon, 01/08/2007 - 06:17
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Sex is great but hurts after
More information is needed.
Where exactly is she sore?
Is the discomfort a burning sensation or a sharp pain like a paper cut?
Also, is the discomfort more like that from being repeadedly bumped as would happen from vigorous thrusting?
The vagina expands to accommodate any size endowment; however, the vaginal opening requires "conditioning" over time in order to become more complient. If the entrance is what is becoming sore, then I recommend she try exercising it in order to make it more pliable. Two methods have been described. One contributor suggest a graduated dildo; I recommend that a person take a series of baths or showers over several days and to tug on the opening in each of the four quadrants, holding the pressure for a bit before moving to the next. The water will soften the skin. Over a period of a few days she should be able to work up to being able to insert a couple of fingers. Even if this is possible now, she might still benefit from doing the exercise. Using two fingers is similar to using one, only she can apply the pressure in opposition for each of the four directions.