Have you read the articles listed in the Index? Have you used either of the site's search engines?
The answer is three-fold: first, making out in progressive steps over the course of weeks or months; second, understanding how boundaries work; third, using the technique of Implied Consent.
[COLOR="orange">Please keep in mind and understand that as your make out sessions become more intimate as time progresses, just because she gets to a point of wanting to play with your penis and associated parts {"package") in no way means that she is ready for you to play with her pieces-parts just yet. It might be incorrect to make this assumption.[/COLOR]
This is why it is important to understand how boundaries and Implied Consent work and then to use the methods appropriately. Your question is a very good one, Sweet, and I wish more boys especially, and girls, would learn the how-to of this sooner than later, if at all.
She will give you signals. Try to understand that signals. Don't listen to the "ask them if they're ready". You need to take lead if you see signals. Pay attention to her body language. Is she getting closer to you? Does she seem nervous? Little things like that may indicate what she wants.
Have you read the articles listed in the Index? Have you used either of the site's search engines?
The answer is three-fold: first, making out in progressive steps over the course of weeks or months; second, understanding how boundaries work; third, using the technique of Implied Consent.
These are covered in the following articles:
Making Out--Knowing How Far To Go
KISSING & CARESSING--a young person's guide to EXPLORATION
Plus these articles:
I'm Ready for SEX! (or am I?) I really want to do it.
What Can I/We Do To Prepare For First Time Intercourse?
Plus:
A) she will not stop your progress
B) she will tell you that she wants to engage in foreplay and/or intercourse
If after reading all of the above, if you have questions, please do not hesitate to ask.
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[COLOR="orange">Please keep in mind and understand that as your make out sessions become more intimate as time progresses, just because she gets to a point of wanting to play with your penis and associated parts {"package") in no way means that she is ready for you to play with her pieces-parts just yet. It might be incorrect to make this assumption.[/COLOR]
This is why it is important to understand how boundaries and Implied Consent work and then to use the methods appropriately. Your question is a very good one, Sweet, and I wish more boys especially, and girls, would learn the how-to of this sooner than later, if at all.
How do you "know?" You ask. No one else knows what all the signals she may or may not be sending mean.
[QUOTE=Brandye;253944]How do you "know?" You ask. No one else knows what all the signals she may or may not be sending mean.[/QUOTE]
Exactly! :)
[QUOTE=Brandye;253944]How do you "know?" You ask. No one else knows what all the signals she may or may not be sending mean.[/QUOTE]
Exactly! It is always best to ask rather than to assume. Assuming can lead to various consequences.
I had a quipy comment, but I'll pass on that....rather, maybe I could learn something here.
When she slams you up against the wall, rips your shirt open and kisses you with all the passion of the universe.
She will give you signals. Try to understand that signals. Don't listen to the "ask them if they're ready". You need to take lead if you see signals. Pay attention to her body language. Is she getting closer to you? Does she seem nervous? Little things like that may indicate what she wants.
LOL
Why guys spend time with sexually unaggressive women is beyond me.
Get with the women who will rust your foreplay skills.
[QUOTE=Brandye;257740]Actually, we women are much like melons - to tell if we are ripe, sniff our belly buttons.[/QUOTE]
thump you with a finger flick and listen for the hollow sound?
:D
Actually, we women are much like melons - to tell if we are ripe, sniff our belly buttons.