if you tie her up make sure she is 'up' for it. when you do it find some sofr rope and do it when your making out, with out saying anything. it will suprise her and its strange how much power you can have. but make sure she is ok with it and dont take the piss, cause she wont be able to get out of it.

if you r getting a bit board of it, try going to different places. like some where out side but make sure there arnt many/any people about cause that might 'spice' it up a bit too much ;)

Body worship. Play wrestling.

Really do not go leaping into kink before you've explored all other available options.

my girlfriend and i waited until about eight months in to try anything remotely kinky. now, we've been together for two years and we have tried some rather, uh, interesting stuff. it's fun, but make sure you communicate well and make sure you're doing something you both want to do.

o yeah, and anything for anything kinky, let me reiterate what ive said on a couple of other threads-the safeword system is mandatory and inviolate. not even the person playing the submissive can waive it, for instance say "ahh, we dont need a safeword tonight". unlike other precautions you should take at the beginning, such as an out-of-character "checkup" on each other every 5 or 10 minutes or trial runs of new stuff before actually doing it, the safeword system stays with you no matter what, no matter how many times you've done whatever you're doing or how comfortable you are with it.

SAFEWORDS. ARE. NECCESSARY!!

I responded in your other post (pleasing her). please only post once.

try somewhere unusual....I was over at a boyfriends and we had eaten dinner so I asked him to join me in the kitchen....I kiss him and put his hands behind his back. Then I tied them together with a bandana. He smiled like a wicked school boy. I then blindfolded him and started kissing him again.

I then unbuckled his belt...still while kissing....and let his jeans fall to the floor.

I kissed him and teased him to get him aroused and then I pulled up a chair (1, because he is really tall and two so I had better position to dothis for a longer time) and I preceded to give him a blowjob that nearly made him fall down....weak in the knees...hehe.

He said he loved it because it was different, I was in control, it was totally spontaneous....and then we went up stairs and continued the fun.

Its all about surprises....him and I had talked about being tied up and blindfolded before. He knows that I am up for being tied up but not blindfolded and I knew he was up for both. Make sure you talk about it before hand.

But then its game for whenever.

well i have always liked the anticipation of strip poker you know what they say its about the journy not the destenation im bad at spelling sry