Hey Confused

A lot of girls do like the clitoris stimulation, but not all. I for one prefer to go during intercourse.

There are a lot of different things you can try. First of all, if you are new to this, it's going to probably take you awhile to get used to all of the new sensations and to be able to figure out what makes you feel good and what will bring you to orgasm.

Not knowing much about your situation, some of my suggestions would be to try different positions because this will allow him to expore and stimulate different parts of your vagina and search for the g-spot. Try him on top, you on top, or doggy style as alternatives as these 3 positions tend to have the most different effects. Don't be afraid to experiment though. One position that I really like that really hits the spot for me is with the guy on top, but one of my legs up on his should (and you don't have to be extremely flexible for this to work) and him turned on a slight angle. I also like being on top but leaning backwards from him a bit because I have a really sensitive cervix.

As for the heat, a lot of factors can affect this. Mostly the one I find plays the biggest part is that after a couple of seconds the vagina tends to release large amounts of secretion and the "wetness" cools down the sensation of the heat of the penis.

Anyways Hope that helps.....

a fair amount of females don't actually reach orgasm during intercourse itself.
our most sensitive part is our little nub so if you'd like to reach orgasm, i'd suggest telling him to rub you down there while he's doing it.