I'm just curious if anyone here has had a sexual experience/relationship with a cousin.
I myself...(at times embarassing to admit)...lost my virginity when I was 14 with my cousin who was 18 at the time. It all started with us playing footsies constantly under the table and in the basement, pretty much everywhere we all went as a family. We made sure we sat next to oneanother or across from oneanother. Once she started wearing pantyhose, my fetish for hose came out and we took it to another level and things really got intimate. We eventually started having sex everytime our families got together....which in an Italian family is pretty much Sundays. Depending whose house we were at, we made sure to lock the bedroom door or the basement door and have a quickie. Eventually she outgrew getting together with a younger guy and we grew distant. It wasn't til alomst 20 years later when we'd cross paths again on the Long Island Railroad. We were both commuting home and happen to see each other on the train. I sat with her and we caught up on life and where we were at. We exchanged phone numbers and she got off the stop before mine. The next day, she called me and told me how much she enjoyed seeing me again and how she was recalling us growing up together. I was smiling and agreed with her, it was definitely a fun time in both our lives. She then invited me for dinner after work at her place. I met her after work and had a wonderful dinner with her in her apartment. She started playing footsies like old times under the table and wore my favorite pair of pantyhose. We didn't finish dinner, instead 20 years later and more mature we had sex on the livingroom floor. One of the most intense times I've ever had.
Not to mention, rock star Jerry Lewis married his own cousin and she was underage too.
but you do have to remember that was a big scandal when it happened
Me personally I wouldn't have a problem with it at all even if it was 1st or 2nd cousins. Many times they come about through legal marrages with no common blood ties, just names and family connections. Even if it was 1st cousin from the same bloodline who cares if no one got hurt.
As for the bible in itself one can twist it in any direction to fit their opinions or beliefs, to me it has no scientific or witness fact to support whats written on the pages and is only backed up by what the preacher teaches you at an early age.
JR
I'd say you may not be the only one, but based on the posts to date, you're definitely in the minority! LOL
I have a second cousin that I definitely would label "hot."
Yeah, I might.
But I probably wouldn't marry her. LOL
Am I the only one that finds this disgusting?
I was never into "incest", but I'll have to admit that I do have the hots for one of my female cousins. She's a blonde girl with pretty good size boobs. When she hugs me, I get kind of turned on. I like talking to her a lot 'cause she's beautiful. I may give her hugs and give her quick kisses on the cheek at times, but I would never go as far as having sex with her though.
my family (my grandpa, his brother and all of both of their families) would get together for a family reunion on easter every year. back when i was just hitting puberty, i became very attracted to one of my second cousins. she has red hair, and i just had a thing for red heads, or maybe it's that i had a thing for red heads because of her. anyway, she became the subject of many of my fantasies, but i never actually tried to make any of these fantasies come true...oh well, i'm sure it would have been fun.
1st cousin, 4th cousin... whatever, big deal. You do what you want to do as long as it causes you or your partner no harm. The rest does not concern me or anyone else in any way.
Think twice about mentionning or displaying it in public, the faint-hearted might take it badly.
No, I never had sex with a cousin myself but don't think you're strange or anything, 'cause you're not.
Some time back I met a lady via a friend. We were instantly attracted and hit it off like never before. She had a sexual passion a strength i had always dreamed about!!
ONe day we were laying in bed after a particularly exciting encounter. As we talked we got onto tvarious subjects includinr her having been abused/raped by a relative when she was 14. Shortly after this we got onto a completely different subject - names and how some names seamed old as they had fallen from favour with current generations.
So it was that she referred to her grandfathers brother being called Percy. Well my grandfather was called percy.... you can guess whats coming can't you!!!
Does that make us 2nd cousins? I'm not too good with all this. Anyway that made us think for a while!! And i never did find out who the relative who abused her was.
In england it is perfectly legal to even mary a cousin so i guess the only issues people need to deal with are around there own feelings on the subject (and in my case the the skeletons in my family closet). One thing i can tell you is that my cousin was a total babe and incredibly talented at sex!!!! Funny how that helps me come to terms with it all!!!!! lol
I'm with brandye.....if she's a 3rd or 4th cousin thats pretty distant from family tree...but still, most people would look at you as being a BIG SINNER! Now, i'm sure you know that too, and you probably also know that you're relationship with her is simply a sexual one and will probably never move beyond your clandestine meetings.
Sexual exploration between siblings and extended family members are very common - from "playing doctor" as kids, to mutual masturbation and even sexual intercourse.....close familiy members often experiement with sex while growing up. It's also usually a big family secret.
I was sexually abused by an older uncle in my early teens, but at the time i thought he was just showing me about sex stuff..only as i grew older did i discover it was not that innocent.
That said, just take it a day at atime..and try not to obsess over her.
Historically speaking, sex with- and even marriage to- a cousin (yes, even a first cousin) isn't such a big deal. Royalty used to- and sometimes still- do it all the time. In fact, in ancient Egypt, kings used to marry their sisters to cement the family line to the gods.
That being said, I'm sort of like Demonbuttercup. I have no cousins that I'd really be that interested in...lol. Of course, in my case, pregnancy DEFINITELY would NOT be an issue...
I have to somewhat agree with Lady.
Although you can't change things that happened in the past, and god only knows at that age so many things are new and exciting and the way it sounds one thing lead to another the sexual feeling where there. As moral issues go though I too would cringe some if it happened with a 1st or 2nd cousin, that is a little to close in the blood line for me, and as I said as morals go.
Just be happy that you were all lucky that no one got pregnant with the sexual experiences.
well i'm in a relationship w/ my step cousin and it's caused a family uproar. i love her to death and i want to be with her forever. we dont have sex but maybe in the future. i just want her and i to be good togerther w/ sex or not.
i don't have any cousins that i would be physically attracted too.
i grew up an only child, so all my cousins were more like the brothers i never had. so i couldn't ever picture them in that way.
i guess its different for everyone tho.
I've never had sex with my cousin, but i would.
Sounds like you had a great time with her growing up, and carrying on that great time. Good for you, have some fun
It was definitely a wonderful time growing up with her. It just wasn't until recently, now that we are much much older that there's more passion in it. We've gotten together about three times this year, and everytime when I leave her place that I think abotu what I'm doing...and I sit in the car going....my GOD, I cna't believe I'm having intercourse with my cousin and we are in our late 30's....freaky. But when I'm with her, that goes out the door.
Thanks for not insulting me or calling me names.
Joe
My mother's family is in a different country from where I grew up. Some summers and some school years, I spent there. One summer a male cousin was there for a lengthy time. Exactly the same age and in our mid-teens, we began teasing and one thing led to another. We took a bus all the way across town for him to buy condoms and I, vaginal jelly. It was a very active summer; we each learned a lot about sex and there has never been a repeat though we sometimes talk about "that summer."
eww.... yall are related... it might be ok if your like 4th cousins or 3rd.. but please dont tell me your like 1st or 2nd *shutter*