my boyfriend and i are going to have sex with a condom. im going on the pill soon but i know it takes at least a month for it to be effective. so im really worried and paranoid of the condom breaking or it ending up having a hole in it or something like that. I dont want to end up being pregnant because the condom broke. any suggestions on what i can do?? i wonder what my boyfriend would think if i told him that we have to wait for a month to do it. i know about the spermacide but i heard it cauzes urinary tract infections and yeast infections.