alright my boyfriend and I are big people, but we both hold our weight differently. When we have sex, it seems that he gets tired easier then I do. His stomach fat sometimes gets in the way and cant get his penis in as deep as I need it until I move it. Is there any way around that? Also he cant seem to cum through straight sex, he needs me to give him a handjob before and then he can release in me. Its not that I mind giving him the hand job because I def love making him feel good, but I wish that we could have sex straight through and through. Please help me!!!!
Wed, 04/18/2007 - 14:32
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sex with big people
Try different positions? Maybe with you on top? I honestly think based on size you are going to be limited on positions. If you are on top it would allow for deeper penetration and in return give him more stimulation.
If he is experiencing fatigue during sex, have you considered an exercise routine? Then some "sexercise"? Done together it fun, and may help some of the issues in bed. I know when I work out, sex is that much better!
> Also he cant seem to cum through straight sex, he needs me to give him a handjob before and then he can release in me. Its not that I mind giving him the hand job because I def love making him feel good, but I wish that we could have sex straight through and through.
I wrote a Sticky post just for people with this problem.
INTERCOURSE / ORGASMS / and the gentle art of Humping(plus the G-spot and Making Out)
Please read the opening paragraph, although, do not stop there.
Guys Specifically-
Giving your boyfriend a handjob and/or oral in what I refer to as the Dynamic Duo is exactly the right thing to be doing before he enters your body. You do want him on the ragged edge and about ready for a climax yet not so excited that he will loose control when he moves around.
Sounds to me like you should also read the third chapter about making out, also.
My boyfriend and i are big people too and we have the same problem. Usually, he will jerk off and then ejaculate before he goes inside me. I feel like sex is not satisfying to me because i cant orgasm like he can because it isnt pleasing to me.
well my boyfriend can def please me, and we have alot of fun while we have sex. its just that we cant go for a long while ~ We make out like crazy, and i love going down on him, and giving him hand jobs, and he def loves eating me out we also try knew positions but none of them can seem to make him cum. We can go for a short time. but he cant seem to cum inside of me, i dont mind him jerking off and then coming inside but i was just hoping that wasnt the only resort left. We are both trying to lose weight as well that will prob help.
Sexpert, sound like a very unsatisfying approach. You two need more imgaination.
I will not go off on my physical conditioning rant. I cannot avoid pointing out that your sex life is one of the quality of life factors most greatly affected by poor conditioning and, especially, obesity. You are simply limited in what you can do and how long you can sustain a satisfying position.
Go dancing with Doc. Not a sweaty gym but great exercise. Join me for my 150 miles next week, and every week, on a bicycle.
How wet do you get during sex? It may be that he is not able to get enogh friction built up during sex because you are so wet. My wife gets very wet (and she is big) so we have to do different things to compensate in order that I cum in her.