I have an interest (not a compulsion or anything ... but an interest) in having sex with an audience watching. Not a three- (or more-) some, per se, but a passive audience of one or more. Nor am I interested in an unwilling audience, as in a typical public-sex situation: I'd only want them to be people who really want to watch, and they'd be strangers.
- Anybody ever tried something like this?
- Clever ways to organize it? (I actually already have from elsewhere the e-mail address of someone who's a stranger, but apparently not too strange, who's looking for someone to let him watch).
- Dangers, pitfalls, reasons (obvious or otherwise) why it's just a really stupid thing to do?
I have been interested in this idea as well. The problems could be: their interrupting/intruding, if they are a true stranger then there is dangers of them harming you, is your partner comfortable?, is the observer just watching or masturbating too?, are pictures allowed?, and if you do this in your home then they know where you live and what the inside of your hoses is like. This is all I can think about right now. hope things go well for you.
I have (without my knowledge initialy) participated in a sexual encounter which was a "viewing" by arrangement deal. The girl I was with at the time arranged a "pay per view" session in a pool house at her parents house for which I was a participant.
It was really exciting to be part of (when I realized the audience) and memories are very hot! It does irk me though that it was a "pay per view" session without my knowledge/consent.
Read the above posts warnings and be cogniscent of your and your partners personal safety!!
There are sex parties one can attend which incorporate all degrees of passive viewing. Maybe a look into something of this nature in your area.
So you were having sex with this girl, and she had charged some other people a fee so they could watch you, and you didn't know until you had started? To do that without your consent beforehand seems very bad to me. I would hate for someone to do that to me. In fact, I would probably walk out on her because of it.
It was the last "session" that we had. As I said, thinking about it now is quite hot but YES, I would definitely (and was not) be happy with it now.
Walk out....:eek: ..maybe that would have been the "BIG" thing to do, but i was "going to prove a point" :cool: (very immature approach) and thus finished what I had started. When we got out the room (pool house) ther where not that many people around. Just a few lounging around the pool as was before we went into the place. Strange how very few people actually spoke of the "viewing"! maybe they where not impressed with the action or duration!!:D
It is called a 'soft swap' and yes, some people do it - nothing odd about it.
The pay-per-view was clearly wrong. All parties must consent to any activity.
No, they wouldn't discuss it. Like playing without your consent - not something that's 'done'.
Consent is the keyword here. If you consented to that beforehand, then no problem. She should have asked you first, its a matter of respect. But to do it without seeking your consent beforehand seems deceitful to me.
Thinking about something that happened so long ago seems strange, but its what I have been doing lately.
Maybe this is something I should explore.....definitely with consent as a central part of any developments!!
Thanks
I had sex with 4 people watching one time. It sort of made me do bad, probably because of my age at the time:confused: