My wife and I just started having sex again after our first child and she was having trouble doing some positions. Our favourite is doggy style and it wouldn't work she was too tight. Has anybody experienced this? Should we just try missionary position first for awhile until her vagina loosens up again? She had a C-section, she was hoping to have it naturally to help loosen your vagina. Any advice would be appreciated
Sun, 08/07/2011 - 17:21
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Sex after pregnancy
Following a C-section, there should be no change in the vagina. She is tensing up for some reason. Let her become accustomed to NOT being pregnant.
It takes a while to get back into not being pregnant. Considering what she's been through - and you have remember it is fresh in her mind that sex causes childbirth - be considerate and stay calm. It isn't about you - she's feeling "battered" right about now.
I can only counsel you what another father counseled my husband - give her time and she'll come back to you.
Thanks for the advice. She still wants to have sex she just gets frustrated easily. I was thinking we can just do the missionary for a short period, each time to get her used to it again. The hard part is she is really worried about getting pregnant again, so we have to use condoms for awhile. They make her really dry and it take me a really long time to climax which is bad for both of us. She said we can stop using condoms after a month she just went back on the pill again. I will try to be patient but its hard because I want her so bad
find read and then do The Program found elsewhere in this forum. - use lube with condoms.
lasting a decent length of time isn't a bad thing