my g/f was raised up in a very overprotective household. she was homeschooled through jr. high and in elementary went to a christian school. she didn't get the experiences and learn about the things "normal" kids like me got in public school. as a result she has never masterbated and i don't even think she would know what to do if she tried. we've been sexually active for little over a year now so she does know the basics and beyond of intercourse. sometimes i really wish she would try things on herself so she can give me more feedback on what she likes and so she can explore her own body a little more. the other day we were listening to a comedian talk about dildos and how they are the most embarassing thing on the planet for a man to buy. jokingly she asked if i would buy her one and i asked her what she would do with it. she looked at me and said "use it of course!" i didn't detect the same joking attitude in her response and its got my mind wondering! i'm thinking about surprising her and buying her a vibrator. she might not use it but if i give it to her, i'm sure she'll end up messing with it a little. my question is...am i setting myself up for disaster by doing this? is it possible she won't want sex from me as much since she knows she can just go home and get the same feeling? i just don't want to get replaced by a toy i paid for!