Hey just a question... I feel really bad my girl friend happens to be really really sensitive and i feel bad she actually said ouch and i didn't mean to hurt her...she's also told me just to stop. She gets frustrated and i can tell and i want to bring ehr the pleasure she bring me...what should i do?
Sat, 12/08/2007 - 03:41
#1
Sensitive....
See my 'sticky' posts entitled Body Worship and The Program - both will help you out. Also please be aware that her 'sensitivity' may be a false signal due to her brain not being used to such a level of stimulation.
Sometimes you just have to be gentle and watch that angle of attack. You're just going to have to remember what caused the 'ouch' and not do that again.
Then again, is this a new 'ouch' to places that never gave her problems before? Maybe she wasn't in the mood that ime and it was her way of shooing you off.
For me, nothing ruins the moment (or better read, my ego) more than when the girl says 'ow', whether verbally or moving my hand away.