Alright, so how does someone control their libido?
Strange question, but let me explain my situation. The last month, I stopped taking my depression meds instead I started exercising (running about 3+ miles a day.) I had heard about how exercise basically can work the same as anti-depression meds, and my doc gave it a shot. Well now Im starting to think it was a bad idea, cuz my libido has literally increased ten fold. I mean I find myself running to get rid of my urges, but the more I run, the greater the frequency of erections, and urges. Im trapped between a rock and a hard place.
And this has led to a few mistakes, first, it lead me to hooking up with a close friend, which turned into her becoming gay (A little down cuz now Im 2 for 2 with sexual partners)
And now I can barely show my face at parties cuz I hooked up with a girl who then went off to talk about how rubbish I was with everyone she knew :mad:(Long story short, I was done in about 10 seconds, and she was soooo good that I went two more times again both in under 30 seconds) Not to toot my horn, because I am in no way an orgasmic lover ;) but I never actually wound up finishing, and she laid their like a pillow (makes me laugh cuz I remember the family guy episode lol)
So basically, I am uncontrolalbly horny, and its really messing me up. Masturbation has lost its fun, and I dont even understand why I want sex so bad, cuz I never found it orgasmalicious in the first place :(
Does anyone have any advice at all? Cuz Im up to 6 miles a day now, just to try and control myself...
p.s. hormones suck! lol
Meh not much you can do Ducy lol happens to the best of us. Sometimes my hormones are raging so much I feel scared to go out because I feel like I'll screw the first thing that moves and breathes. :p
Just masturbate to get rid of the "tension" or find someone to hook up with, dunno what else to suggest! Mostly though its just mind power, just think of a horny breaker...like an old lady...or two men if you're totally straight...or going to the bathroom and taking a sh*t...just something gross to make you lose your hard-on. Picture George Bush naked, dancing around singing, I DON'T KNOW SOMETHING! hahaha
OK, next to alcohol, anti-depressant meds (including their herbal "equivalents") are the greatest sexual depressants available. You got off them and now your natural libido is showing - plus the surprise element that revs you up that much more.
What to do? Find a willing partner! We women can wear you right back down!
Dunno if this will be true in your case, but there's sometimes a "spike" as you come off meds like that and your body chemistry compensates. You might find in a few weeks it'll level off to something more manageable. In my case it worked in reverse . . . . when I started taking Wellbutrin it really horned me out for awhile (which was kinda nice actually) but then it settled back into (more or less) my usual routine.
If you are okay mentally off the meds and using physical exercise---leave it alone; you are having a normal libido for a man your age . As suggested find some willing friends...play around and get some experiences...no exclusive relationships just play, forget the past and get out there. Have fun with it!
Really DVD? I had the same thing happen when I started my wellbutrin. and it was only the 150.
Believe me curious I have tried the horny breakers...dont work lol.
I guess I will just have to find a willing partner.
[quote=Ducy;200593]Really DVD? I had the same thing happen when I started my wellbutrin. and it was only the 150.
Believe me curious I have tried the horny breakers...dont work lol.
I guess I will just have to find a willing partner.[/quote]
PartnerS...notice plural!
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And now I can barely show my face at parties cuz I hooked up with a girl who then went off to talk about how rubbish I was with everyone she knew :mad:(Long story short, I was done in about 10 seconds, and she was soooo good that I went two more times again both in under 30 seconds) Not to toot my horn, because I am in no way an orgasmic lover ;) but I never actually wound up finishing, and she laid their like a pillow (makes me laugh cuz I remember the family guy episode lol)
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Is this the same chick you just was posting about that she could barely even have sex b/c it was too "overwhelming"???
What a B*tch... I hate when people can't keep their mouth shut. Even if I slept w/ a guy and it was HORRIBLE.. I would never tell anyone... b/c I would hate for someone to say that about me!
Ducy.. your life is overwhelming.. lol... makes my brain hurt.
Hey at least you'll be ripped and in shape! I wish I felt the urge to run LOL... I'm just a lump on a log :)
And I have NEVER been so horny I couldn't leave the house in fear of humping the first person I saw LMAO! craziness!
[QUOTE=Ducy;200593]Really DVD? I had the same thing happen when I started my wellbutrin. and it was only the 150.
[/QUOTE]Yeah, it's a pretty well documented side effect, which considering all the SSRI class anti-depressants seem to have unpleasant sexual side issues is a nice change. I'll take a little extra horniness over not being able to cum . . . . AT ALL . . . . . any day of the week! lol But as I said though, it either tapered off or I've gotten used to it, not sure which.
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Ducy.. your life is overwhelming.. lol... makes my brain hurt.
Hey at least you'll be ripped and in shape! I wish I felt the urge to run LOL... I'm just a lump on a log :)
And I have NEVER been so horny I couldn't leave the house in fear of humping the first person I saw LMAO! craziness![/quote]This stuff no one could make up! LOL! :) Maybe we should sick ducy on some "older" ladies for a while! Now that would be a challenge for all involved!
Im up for it!!! Wouldn't mind an older woman...what can I say, I love to learn :p.
And yes curious it was the same person. Which I couldnt believe when I heard about it. Oh and the not going to parties is cuz Im too embarassed. I went to hang out with my friend chris, and we met up with his gf and some friends, and her friend was like Oh you slept with so and so right? And started laughing and going on about what she said.
Geesh... yeah Ducy could totally write a book!
Ducy... you better stop turning girls gay! LOL :)
And yeah I agree he needs a "cougar" that can wear him out LOL
Already been done demon. Printed off a copy, gave it to a friend for her bday. (Cuz she always needed advice on stuff). She loved it, and wound up giving it to a friend to help her friend out. I lost track of it after a while. lol. I know though, I definitely need to stop turning people gay. But hey, I guess it is a good convo starter...Hi hows it going, my names Collin and the last two girls I slept with turned gay...
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And I have NEVER been so horny I couldn't leave the house in fear of humping the first person I saw LMAO! craziness![/QUOTE]
:rolleyes: Yeah my hormones are INSANE I guess. If I had the choice, I'd have sex everyday 3-4 times. :D
Sera are you up for that challenge.........If so, how would you handle it?
This should be GOOD.......
Hey, it's their loss---remember that always. You really have a wonderful
personality and outlook on things. You must have a very geniune spirit.
Thanks for the smiles.
Yea...sera...bout that...its not a myth. 3/3 now. I give up...bye bye sex.
Sera, has one of those nice cats gotten your tongue again???
[quote=constantlylearning;200692]Sera, has one of those nice cats gotten your tongue again???[/quote]Not all, just not up to many "feats" for the next two weeks or so! LOL!
Well, you had an admirer (of which I assume there are many) issue a
semi-challenge a few posts prior. You are sooooooooooo funny --you
make me laugh and smile daily.
[quote=constantlylearning;200713]Well, you had an admirer (of which I assume there are many) issue a
semi-challenge a few posts prior. You are sooooooooooo funny --you
make laugh and smile daily.[/quote]An admirer? I guess I miss some points. Semi-challenge? lost me...
Ducy needs to use his hormones to his advantage; work the ladies well around him and dispel his myths about them all turning gay...I should send him out with a male friend of mine...he can show him how it's done! LOL! Glad I make you laugh! Imagine day to day life? Wonder why they leave? LOL! :) I am too much fun....
Yeah right... who's number 3??
lets see got my ex, my friend rebekah and that girl who was talking trash on me...yea...idk if it was before or after we had sex. (I have a feeling it was before but idk).
You dont have to believe me, but why make it up, I mean I should be pretty happy since im 18 today but hey...
[quote=Ducy;200728]Yea...sera...bout that...its not a myth. 3/3 now. I give up...bye bye sex.[/quote]Stop quiting before you start...you have to get out there, not give up on sex. If I gave up on three...well I would be celibate for the past nearly 30 years...Who is number 3???? Was that the random one???
[quote=Ducy;200735]lets see got my ex, my friend rebekah and that girl who was talking trash on me...yea...idk if it was before or after we had sex. (I have a feeling it was before but idk).
You dont have to believe me, but why make it up, I mean I should be pretty happy since im 18 today but hey...[/quote] Happy 18th...now get out there and do the deed; find women of interest and sorry "bang them all"...
lol. Sounds like fun. I should just talk to my cousin. Shes got so many friends who love to hook up...now where did I put my cell phone lol.
Happy Birthday!!
And are we sure these girls are all GAY?!? or are they just experimenting w/ being Bi?
Big difference.... plus now a day.. I think it's the "in" thing to be Bi.... or at least make out w/ other girls.. you see it all the time!!!
Or maybe they just put something in the water where you live LOL
[quote=Ducy;200764]lol. Sounds like fun. I should just talk to my cousin. Shes got so many friends who love to hook up...now where did I put my cell phone lol.[/quote]Make a few calls & arrange some appropriate casual "dates", bring proper protection, expect nothing, play, do not get emotionally attached, just wear some of your hormones out, get selective with time with an persons expertise and enjoy them, and just be their friend. You can eliminate those who you do not "hit off with" and keep making new friends. No talk about previous partners either of you, and you do not discuss it with anyone, not even you male friends. NO GIRLFRIENDS PERIOD.
You know what...them being gay is like telling if a girl is having an orgasm...Ill never know.
And I think there is something in the water that makes people want women. I drink a bunch and look at me lol jk.
Sera, are you charging by the hour or by the paragraph for your advice?
I hope its by the year or ima go broke!
dam dude I wish I still had that problem, my libido is basically gone, idk what in the **** happened to it either, it's got me so pissed.
Personal advice is always free, if I charged by the hour? Well, we would all be in trouble since I am not a psych pro! Just dealt with them as they came in...No charge for the paragraph & occasional "kick in the rumps" (Ducy)! :)
Now Ducy, get out there and get the women straight!
OK ok for the last time......Sera you are a GEM and your "Spunk" is to be
admired....Like I mentioned earlier, you have a way of bringing smiles to
people's faces and that is wonderful trait to have.
ASK HER OUT ALREADY lol jk constantly.
Yeah guys...get a room already...:rolleyes: :p hahaha!