My husband and I have been discussing ways we can go about initiating sex. He told me that he would like me to whisper "dirty" sweet nothings in his ear, perferably in a public place...and then (assuming we are driving seperately) leave and head for home. He says that this will give him the urge to run after me and apon arrival home proceed to rip off my clothes. I have no problem with this senerio, if fact I am very much looking forward to trying it. The issue that is troubling me is that I have no idea what to say. I asked him for a good example and he said say...You! Me! Bedroom! Naked! 5 minutes!! Then he told me not to use that one because if I did then it would make him laugh because it's not off the top off my head...so then he said use my imagination....So here I am...I am at a loss for "words" I really want to make his eyes pop out of his head and really get him going but everything I can think to say is so corny that I am afraid we would both be on the floor laughing before we'd ever make it to the bedroom. ANY suggestions PLEASE!!!
Sat, 03/04/2006 - 07:34
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seductive sweet nothings?
The "use your imagination" statement is sort of on the right track. I think you should concentrate on stimulating his imagination on what will happen or what he will find once he gets into the bedroom.
(grope or rub up against him a little) "I might be wet right now ... but you'll have to check for yourself!"
(playfully) "Too bad you can't see which panties I'm wearing right now." (seductive grin)
(bashfully) "I some assistance with my vibrator ... maybe you could ... instruct me?"
(seductively, and earlier in the evening) "I didn't wear any panties." - he will be going crazy all night!
(directly, bitchy) "When we get home, rip off my clothes and take me." - bitchiness can make confident men more cocky, aggressive and animalistic.
Hey, I'm gonna try some of those with my guy next time lol
Seriously, perhaps saying nothing is the best way to go about it. I know it drives my guy absouletly INSANE when I kiss his ear (I don't know why, but it does). So perhaps you could do that and then whisper, "There's more from where that came from when we get home."
Good luck!
[QUOTE=Lass]Hey, I'm gonna try some of those with my guy next time lol[/QUOTE]
heh, glad to be of help :)
[QUOTE=Lass]
Seriously, perhaps saying nothing is the best way to go about it. I know it drives my guy absouletly INSANE when I kiss his ear (I don't know why, but it does). So perhaps you could do that and then whisper, "There's more from where that came from when we get home."[/QUOTE]
Hey MsBunny, definitely try this one! As a guy I know that sort of thing would have me preoccupied all night!
Good suggestions thank you when I try them I will let you know how it went...
for some reason i really like the "im not wearing any panties " one, it just sounds really dirty and fun .... thing is i cant see myself actually going out somewhere and not wearing any panties :P lol
yah my bf is like super quiet in bed... so sometimes i say little things, like as simple as "im really turned on right now", or "it feels so good to feel u inside of me after i come", and at best he will usually nod his head ... i guess some people arent used to talking in bed, but good for you for trying... i think it adds to the experience, as long as both parties are comfortable :)