well hi guys i am new, today me and my girlfriend had sex for the first time (with condom). about 2 hours later she wanted to again but i didnt have a condom so i didnt use one. would there be a chance 2 hours later that she could get preg.??
Wed, 06/01/2005 - 04:45
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scared a bit
yeah that does kinda sound right ! thanks for your help... ill try some of those hints out !
I hope it helps.
Hi Rainydayzsunshine,
Try this: Headaches During Sex
Does that sound right?
quick question
me and my bf have been having sex for a few months now and i recently tried being on top. everytime i begin to or after i have an orgasm i get a horrible pounding headache in the back of my head that will last up to hours after sex. the only reason i can think of is that when i get all tense before i orgasm, i strain my head?! i dont know !
if you have any advice, let me know PLEASE !!!
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so the morning after pill can still work, if i get it by tomorow, but where can i get it?? because i dont know any place in which i can get that from. do normal drug stores hold it?? or do i have to bring her to the doctors. and to get one does she need her parents promission?
Okay, here's the info:
The Morning After Pill
It has a time limit of 72 hours from when you had sex. This is the much better option.
The other option is the RU-486 pill which is also called the Early Abortion Pill.
I doubt seriously if she is actually showing any signs of pregnancy yet... it's only been a few days. It can take up to two weeks to be sure (using home pregnancy tests). She is probably just under stress from worry. If she is overly concerned, then she needs to contact her gynocologist... if nothing else to ease her mind.
As for protection, as Demonbuttercup said, nothing is "completely" fool-proof (except not having sex). To reduce the chances to a reasonable level, she should be on birth control pills, you should ALWAYS wear a condom, and use a spermicidal foam or gel during sex.
but how about now, we are both pretty scared and today is the second day, so if i got the morning after pill for her tomorrow would it still have any effect?? do they sell the morning after pill at drug stores?? if there are other things i can do please tell me, its been 2 days and she says her stomach hurts, i am kind of scared
are there ways in which i can make sure that theres almost no chance??
ok thanks guys im still scared a bit but, if anything happens then ill just have to be a man, and deal with it and learn from my stupid mistake
Yep, anytime the penis is inside the vagina there is a possibility of pregnancy. It doesn't matter if you ejaculate or not. If you don't have a condom, it's best to keep the penis away from that area.
so there is a chance even thought it was 2 hours apart, could there be sperm that are still alive?? because i know that it was dry when i tired to get it into her.
Ok, you're like... losing me here.
You had sex with a condom, correct?
Then, 2 hours later, you had sex without a condom, correct?
So, explain to me what this whole "2 hours and sperm" thing has to do with anything.
Her being dry doesn't have to do with your sperm. Her being dry means she wasn't creating enough juices herself. Your sperm does not fertilize her in the opening of the vagina. It fertilizes here way up in the inside in her tubes.
The condom more than likely stopped the sperm the first time. So, I think you're ok in that department. However, the second time you did it (whether it was 2 hours later... 4 hours later... etc etc) you didn't use a condom. That's where you messed up. Yes she can get pregnant from that whether 2 hours passed or 5 minutes passed or 2 days passed.
So, moral of story, hope and pray she's not pregnant (as me be horrible and judging by your posts, you're not ready for that) and next time, and every time, use a condom. If you don't have one, don't do it.
i forgot to add that after the 2 hours, i didnt finish because i got scared half way through so i told her we should stop until i got some more condoms, we did it for maybe 5-10mins (max) and i told her we shouldnt take this risk as it wouldnt be nice if her parents found out. sorry i forgot to put that part in
A fresh, NEW condom EVERY time you have sex, period. Anytime, you have sex without a condom you run a much greater risk of pregnancy. It doesn't matter if it was two hours, two minutes or two days. Always use a condom and never use the same condom twice. No condom, no sex.
Excuse me a minute. *blinks* Ok. Done now.
Anyways.
Yes, there's still a chance she could get pregnant. Condoms don't play magic and say only one a day is enough. You need one every time.
I would say a condom w/ spermicide... not just the kind w/ it already on there... but additional spermicide.
Or maybe a condom and her on the pill.
Nothing except abstinence is purely 100% safe.
So um, why exactly are you worrying so much then?
Yes, she can still get pregnant because you more than likely have precum, which has sperm in it. But the odds are a little decreased now. (Not by a whole lot though.)
The 2 hours however still has diddly squat to do with anything.