Most of all don't do anything you don't want to do. If you are unsure of what is going on, don't do it. If you are comfortable with the person and are looking to go down south to explore, you need to use protection.
Now, the only two cents I can give you is the same as the others. You are a teen, so you need to get used to you. Get to know you and what you like. Masturbation and getting a mirror to look at what is going on is a good idea. Feel comfortable in your skin and you can relax and enjoy the moment.
[QUOTE=Quote (isaar0012 @ Feb. 18 2005,02:59)]ok first of all you need to like your body before you let some one touch you. but you can try standing in front of a mirror and look at your self when you are ready then make your move. as for the shave or not its up to you boys dont care as long as it is neat.[/QUOTE]
thanks - that's helpful!
ok first of all you need to like your body before you let some one touch you. but you can try standing in front of a mirror and look at your self when you are ready then make your move. as for the shave or not its up to you boys dont care as long as it is neat.
I would suggest it since you've never used a tampon and probably aren't used to foreign objects being inserted in you.
I have to use it because while I may be practically dripping wet, I seem to be quite dry on the inside. I'm also on the narrow side so it does help it some.
It would probably help, unless you're one of those girls that gets really wet, but I would suggest at least trying it. Being too wet is better than too dry, its at least less painful.
[QUOTE=Quote (thetease13 @ Feb. 14 2005,14:04)]Lube such as Ky Jelly, or KY personal lubricant (warming or non) and Astroglide can be found at your local store.
Other products such as Wet, you'd probably either have to buy online or go to a local sex toy store to get it.[/QUOTE]
ok thanks! it's not vital i get it tho is it?
[QUOTE=Quote (Tessie @ Feb. 14 2005,10:57)]First I would say until you are totally comfortable with yourself letting your bf see you and touch you then you shouldn't be doing it. Don't feel you have to just because he wants to. It won't be good for you then.
However, I am sure you look just fine and really men just aren't that judgemental about what it looks like.
Fingering should not hurt nor cause bleeding and should be a really great experience. I assume your still a virgin and not wearing tampons might make you tighter then normal. If you use some lube that can help until your vagina produces enough of its own juices.
Now why can't you put a finger in yourself? That would be a good idea to learn your body and know what you like before someone else goes playing down there.[/QUOTE]
hi thanks for your comments! i really appreciate it - they're rlly useful! yeh i won't let my bf pressure me into nething..i'm fine with what we've done..just im not ready for fingering yet as i'm not completely comfortable with myself yet i guess.
thanks for clearing up the issue about "bleeding" after fingering, coz i was worried about it.
i am still a virgin, yes. where cn i get lube from btw? (sorry if i seem rather clueless - i'm relatively new to all this as i'm only with my first bf)
First I would say until you are totally comfortable with yourself letting your bf see you and touch you then you shouldn't be doing it. Don't feel you have to just because he wants to. It won't be good for you then.
However, I am sure you look just fine and really men just aren't that judgemental about what it looks like.
Fingering should not hurt nor cause bleeding and should be a really great experience. I assume your still a virgin and not wearing tampons might make you tighter then normal. If you use some lube that can help until your vagina produces enough of its own juices.
Now why can't you put a finger in yourself? That would be a good idea to learn your body and know what you like before someone else goes playing down there.
Most of all don't do anything you don't want to do. If you are unsure of what is going on, don't do it. If you are comfortable with the person and are looking to go down south to explore, you need to use protection.
Now, the only two cents I can give you is the same as the others. You are a teen, so you need to get used to you. Get to know you and what you like. Masturbation and getting a mirror to look at what is going on is a good idea. Feel comfortable in your skin and you can relax and enjoy the moment.
[QUOTE=Quote (isaar0012 @ Feb. 18 2005,02:59)]ok first of all you need to like your body before you let some one touch you. but you can try standing in front of a mirror and look at your self when you are ready then make your move. as for the shave or not its up to you boys dont care as long as it is neat.[/QUOTE]
thanks - that's helpful!
ok first of all you need to like your body before you let some one touch you. but you can try standing in front of a mirror and look at your self when you are ready then make your move. as for the shave or not its up to you boys dont care as long as it is neat.
Yea, it's not vital, just can help.
I would suggest it since you've never used a tampon and probably aren't used to foreign objects being inserted in you.
I have to use it because while I may be practically dripping wet, I seem to be quite dry on the inside. I'm also on the narrow side so it does help it some.
It would probably help, unless you're one of those girls that gets really wet, but I would suggest at least trying it. Being too wet is better than too dry, its at least less painful.
[QUOTE=Quote (thetease13 @ Feb. 14 2005,14:04)]Lube such as Ky Jelly, or KY personal lubricant (warming or non) and Astroglide can be found at your local store.
Other products such as Wet, you'd probably either have to buy online or go to a local sex toy store to get it.[/QUOTE]
ok thanks! it's not vital i get it tho is it?
uncreativename
Lube such as Ky Jelly, or KY personal lubricant (warming or non) and Astroglide can be found at your local store.
Other products such as Wet, you'd probably either have to buy online or go to a local sex toy store to get it.
[QUOTE=Quote (Tessie @ Feb. 14 2005,10:57)]First I would say until you are totally comfortable with yourself letting your bf see you and touch you then you shouldn't be doing it. Don't feel you have to just because he wants to. It won't be good for you then.
However, I am sure you look just fine and really men just aren't that judgemental about what it looks like.
Fingering should not hurt nor cause bleeding and should be a really great experience. I assume your still a virgin and not wearing tampons might make you tighter then normal. If you use some lube that can help until your vagina produces enough of its own juices.
Now why can't you put a finger in yourself? That would be a good idea to learn your body and know what you like before someone else goes playing down there.[/QUOTE]
hi thanks for your comments! i really appreciate it - they're rlly useful! yeh i won't let my bf pressure me into nething..i'm fine with what we've done..just im not ready for fingering yet as i'm not completely comfortable with myself yet i guess.
thanks for clearing up the issue about "bleeding" after fingering, coz i was worried about it.
i am still a virgin, yes. where cn i get lube from btw? (sorry if i seem rather clueless - i'm relatively new to all this as i'm only with my first bf)
anyway, thanks again!
uncreativename
First I would say until you are totally comfortable with yourself letting your bf see you and touch you then you shouldn't be doing it. Don't feel you have to just because he wants to. It won't be good for you then.
However, I am sure you look just fine and really men just aren't that judgemental about what it looks like.
Fingering should not hurt nor cause bleeding and should be a really great experience. I assume your still a virgin and not wearing tampons might make you tighter then normal. If you use some lube that can help until your vagina produces enough of its own juices.
Now why can't you put a finger in yourself? That would be a good idea to learn your body and know what you like before someone else goes playing down there.