well, clearly not many of you have ever had a raw penis and a desire to keep using it. Soak in the tub and use lots of soap on it or in the water and soak for 20 minutes or so. Afterward and in between soaking baths.....use a good handcream or lubriderm or something GENEROUSLY. you should be good to go in a day or two
I have had my penis rubbed raw as well, I use a good moisturiser (I use USANA brand moisturiser as I buy it through my own store) and that works a treat.
It has been my experience when this has happened that if one or more small scabs form over the abrasions that it takes as long as it takes to heal. The trouble I've found is that the abrasions are over a hot spot and ya just wanna/gotta rub them and if you do this can sometimes open old wounds so to speak.
One solution that works depending upon where the abrasion is located is to fold a layer of skin over it and rub through the double layer that acts as insulation.
I'm not sure what the last poster means by the abrasions taking away sexual desire. Shucks, the desire remains and this is the problem, wanting to rub those areas that are healing, again and again. I do agree that if you got sore spots, leave them alone, but if you must, then fold a layer of skin over them and use a lubricant regardless.
You can try using some vit. E on any of the wounds in addition to whatever ointment you choose.
I'm not a guy, but I have a fiance who has encountered this problem- what can I say? I have a voracious sexual appetite!
He used some Neosporin and just dealt with it... The threshold of pain that he has is pretty high though. I can't imagine being in any sort of similar experience and not wanting to cry.
There are two factors in this scenario. The first is wanting to satisfy a continuing "itch" and finding it more challenging because of one or more sore spots; the other is about the discomfort associated with fiddling with the sore spots.
> Perhaps I chose the wrong words. Ok the desire is there, but if its painful, then it becomes unpleasant.
I figured this is what you meant.
As for Pt. 2, this goes to the subject of there being a fine line between pain and pleasure, a topic I address when discussing "ball playing" and intensifying
those sensations that are being generated by other caresses--and/or helping to trigger an illusive orgasm. My personal experience is that if you can rub the sore spots without causing them to open up, and do so only when you are very aroused and nearing the brink of an orgasm that the pain you would normally feel as uncomfortable will actually be perceived by the brain as pleasurable. Go figure.
> > The threshold of pain that he has is pretty high though. I can't imagine being in any sort of similar experience and not wanting to cry.
These are sore spots are just abrasions, no worse than a paper cut, if that. They are nothing so traumatic that one would shed a tear over--just annoying.
> > I have a fiance who has encountered this problem- what can I say? I have a voracious sexual appetite!
I say two things: :)
T#1: Use a lubricant because you can generate as much or more stimulation from little or no pressure or rubbing. If you opt to rub, then there is less friction so less of a tendency to rub the skin raw.
T#2: Learn how to mimic his specific technique for masturbating so your hand actions are perhaps less rough and abrupt and more on target for how he is used to generating a climax.
my gf handjobbed my dick raw...i just let it heal. dont try to scratch it
i doubt that will help u but i tried my best :(
That's pretty much the answer. You can put some ointment on the cuts, but other than that, just let them heal.
In the future, use a lubricant.
woot i was right
I love the feeling of the satisfaction knowing that sex was so rough it rubbed my cock raw.
Although it hurts, it's so hot.
well, clearly not many of you have ever had a raw penis and a desire to keep using it. Soak in the tub and use lots of soap on it or in the water and soak for 20 minutes or so. Afterward and in between soaking baths.....use a good handcream or lubriderm or something GENEROUSLY. you should be good to go in a day or two
I have had my penis rubbed raw as well, I use a good moisturiser (I use USANA brand moisturiser as I buy it through my own store) and that works a treat.
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Water without soap works better (unless its a kinda girly mosturizing soap). Aloe vera lotion, just like sunburns, helps the best.
USANA is best company ever. They make all my supplemental vits, mins, etc.
Did any of the advice work for you?
Thanks for all you help. It has been very informative.
I've been rubbed raw a few times. Takes away my sexual desire when that happens. Just give it a rest for a while, doesn't take long to recover.
It has been my experience when this has happened that if one or more small scabs form over the abrasions that it takes as long as it takes to heal. The trouble I've found is that the abrasions are over a hot spot and ya just wanna/gotta rub them and if you do this can sometimes open old wounds so to speak.
One solution that works depending upon where the abrasion is located is to fold a layer of skin over it and rub through the double layer that acts as insulation.
I'm not sure what the last poster means by the abrasions taking away sexual desire. Shucks, the desire remains and this is the problem, wanting to rub those areas that are healing, again and again. I do agree that if you got sore spots, leave them alone, but if you must, then fold a layer of skin over them and use a lubricant regardless.
You can try using some vit. E on any of the wounds in addition to whatever ointment you choose.
Perhaps I chose the wrong words. Ok the desire is there, but if its painful, then it becomes unpleasant.
Maybe using lubricant is a good idea.
I'm not a guy, but I have a fiance who has encountered this problem- what can I say? I have a voracious sexual appetite!
He used some Neosporin and just dealt with it... The threshold of pain that he has is pretty high though. I can't imagine being in any sort of similar experience and not wanting to cry.
Good luck and happy humping!
There are two factors in this scenario. The first is wanting to satisfy a continuing "itch" and finding it more challenging because of one or more sore spots; the other is about the discomfort associated with fiddling with the sore spots.
> Perhaps I chose the wrong words. Ok the desire is there, but if its painful, then it becomes unpleasant.
I figured this is what you meant.
As for Pt. 2, this goes to the subject of there being a fine line between pain and pleasure, a topic I address when discussing "ball playing" and intensifying
those sensations that are being generated by other caresses--and/or helping to trigger an illusive orgasm. My personal experience is that if you can rub the sore spots without causing them to open up, and do so only when you are very aroused and nearing the brink of an orgasm that the pain you would normally feel as uncomfortable will actually be perceived by the brain as pleasurable. Go figure.
> > The threshold of pain that he has is pretty high though. I can't imagine being in any sort of similar experience and not wanting to cry.
These are sore spots are just abrasions, no worse than a paper cut, if that. They are nothing so traumatic that one would shed a tear over--just annoying.
> > I have a fiance who has encountered this problem- what can I say? I have a voracious sexual appetite!
I say two things: :)
T#1: Use a lubricant because you can generate as much or more stimulation from little or no pressure or rubbing. If you opt to rub, then there is less friction so less of a tendency to rub the skin raw.
T#2: Learn how to mimic his specific technique for masturbating so your hand actions are perhaps less rough and abrupt and more on target for how he is used to generating a climax.