I guess I am not into this stuff. I would not find any of your examples acceptable. I find sex to be a pleasant act of intimacy bringing two people closer together. Anything that risks pain or damage (physical or psychological) is off limits.

totally agree with bradye. i believe sex is an act of compassion and love.

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Physical Pain: Biting, scratching, (on the ass, neck, back, arms), pulling hair gently
Bondage play: Being tied up, "forced" sex <-- very very hot[/QUOTE]

I edited out what I don't like, and added a couple things. =)

Personally, I agree with Brandye and Lovesdesire on some occasions...romantic, inimate, gentle, passionate, but other occasions I want it ROUGH! :D

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Name calling (slut, whore, etc.)
Physical Pain: slapping on the ass
Bondage play: Being tied up.

These are on very rare occasions & not the sexual norm for me.

Getting into the erotic asphyxiation I despise mentioning for these reasons; it leads to many unplanned deaths, gives too many people thoughts on ways to get off, and one should be psychologically evaluated for engaging in this.

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Getting into the erotic asphyxiation I despise mentioning for these reasons; it leads to many unplanned deaths, gives too many people thoughts on ways to get off, and one should be psychologically evaluated for engaging in this.[/QUOTE]

Yes I agree, its one of the stupidest things ever, and you know most of the people who do this are young males, young as in 12-16. Its sad and quite screwed up that boys dare each other to do this.

Btw for the record, what I said I liked depends on the situation usually, its not everyday...except biting on the neck, I absolutely LOVE that and want it as much as possible...Too many vampire books/movies I guess :rolleyes: :D

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Yes I agree, its one of the stupidest things ever, and you know most of the people who do this are young males, young as in 12-16. Its sad and quite screwed up that boys dare each other to do this.

Oh yeah. And many pay the ultimate unintended consequences for it, I find this behavior very disturbing there has been one woman in the past posted a similar experience, I asked a mod to eliminate the post for obvious reasons; hopefully, she did stop. I believe putting this topic up on this particular subject matter gives many "thoughts". When someone feels it's an "individuals right" to perform this all I can say is; "You be the one to go out and explain why your son/daughter/wife/husband/partner could not be saved, and I am so sorry for your loss and the death of your loved one" and then explain to the loved ones what happened. Do that about 10 times a year and you'll (meaning anyone) rethink your position on it. If that's not enough, hang out in the morgue for a few days. I am adamant about this one topic.

I have just found a partner who introduced me to this area of sex. Gentle sex is great. But add this in and it enters into an entirely different realm. If you JUST get past the initial pain, it honestly doesn't hurt. Now you can go one step further and it will. There is a fine line and finding it with a partner you can TRUST is essential.
Personally, don't slap me on the butt of face. But biting in the neck, nipples ect is fun. Hair pulling, rough handling, ect I have encountered. I don't think I am game to go into tying me up. And choking seems stupid to me. I don't want ANYONE to have that much power over me. I always liked gently biting my partner but they never seemed to care for it as much as I did. Now I have one who does.

Used to do occaisional rough sex, but I never did get into some of it. Definitely no choking (why would you be that stupid?) and I never wanted to call my partner names (sex is not about degredation). Howver, light bondage and a little bit of biting and scratching is OK. I don't really do any of it now, though, because sex between me and my wife is generally pretty gentle.

Yeah I prefer just nibbles to biting lol...and I've been spanked and it did absolutely nothing. Been hand cuffed...nothing...
dirty talk... nothing.....
When it comes to sex I am not very animalistic.. in that I get overwhelmed w/ urges and can't control myself.
It's more like... eh ok.. let's do this! lol
For someone who doesn't just LOVE sex.. I sure do hang around a sex info msg board alot. LMAO :)

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When it comes to sex I am not very animalistic.. in that I get overwhelmed w/ urges and can't control myself.[/QUOTE]

My fiancée and I are very animalistic. :D The whole "ripping clothes off and fu-cking hard, deep, and fast" is a huge turn on for us. And as I stated before, I looooooooove to be bitten!

[QUOTE=Brandye;182688]I guess I am not into this stuff. I would not find any of your examples acceptable. I find sex to be a pleasant act of intimacy bringing two people closer together. Anything that risks pain or damage (physical or psychological) is off limits.[/QUOTE]

6 months ago, that would probably have been my answer. But I genuinely think that it is based on a misunderstanding of "rough" sex. It is a pleasant act of intimacy, and as long as you're safe, doesn't risk damage (Physical of psychological). As to pain, my girlfriend genuinely enjoys pain.

As for the examples,

Name calling (slut, whore, etc.) None of it is my sort of thing. My girlfriend enjoys being controlled, not degraded. And I wouldn't enjoy degrading her. Except for as a joke :p
Physical Pain: Biting, scratching, slapping (on the ass, face, other parts of the body, etc.) Biting - Yes. Scratching - Yes. Slapping - Pretty much just her ass
Bondage play: Being tied up, "forced" sex, hot wax, etc. Recently experimented with the wax. Quite fun. Tied up, yes. And recently she told me she wanted me to be more "aggressive", I think was the term she used. So maybe "forced" (With lots of emphasis on the speech marks) sex will be in the future, we'll see.
Other Stuff: Hard core face ****ing, erotic asphyxiation, etc.Too much for me