Hi
What are your views on quite rough hands? You see I play alot of basketball and do alot of rim hanging/dunking etc which tend to give me small calouses at the base of my fingers....Ive tried filing them off but I can keep them away for long because I keep playing ball.
The girl I've just sort of started with right now hasnt really felt them to their full extent, I'm afraid that certain things like full massages and caressing might be spoilt by them....
THanks for any help.....
I completely agree... sounds hot to me. I dont know what it is... somthing about strong hands... the contrast of rough and smooth, very sexy.
As long as you keep your nails trimmed and smooth and perhaps use a good quality lotion or oil while doing the massage it shouldn't be a problem.
Years ago hubby had a job that caused him to have lots of calluses and I never minded them. There is something about being touched by a man's rough hands that is a real turn on.
hmmm, my bf has really rough hands, the only prob with it is, if they go somewhere else! ;) That can be a bit uncomfortable!
I don't think Id like a guy to have really smooth hands! Its sorta more masculine to have a little bit of roughness! Believe me, your hands prob aren't as rough as my bfs, if its just from playing basket ball! He has a job, which really dries them out and cuts them up! I wouldn't think your hands are that bad! Why don't you ask her?
If you're bothered by it, soak your hands in warm water (for about 10mins), with a bit of oil in it and get a pumice stone and sorta file it away!! Moisturise well after, to avoid any more roughness!! :)
I'm kind of proud that my hands are scarred and rough from years of manual labor. It just gives you a good feeling to do a hard days work with your hands...
I think that it actually works in your favor to have rough hands. Not only does it give you that masculine feeling like they talked about above, but try running your hands lightly over their skin. Especially if you hit a "hot-spot," they'll love it.
I would add it to the "pro" side instead of the "cons."
Probably has a variety of reasons. Manual work, dry sky, etc. Using
moisture treatments will greatly help to take some of the roughness out.
Good for the skin also. Important especially if one has drier skin. Keep
that skin nice smooth and shinny.
You can try using a pumice stone during a shower to remove some of the calloused areas and then apply a good moisturizer...I found what works well to minimize some of the roughness and potential for cracking of hand tissue is "Surgeon's skin secret". It will not remove all of it but will minimize abrasiveness & soften the area.
Just be careful passing those rough hands over erect nipples. Properly done, great; improperly done, the mood is gone.
Hahaha...yeah, learned that the hard way...
Turn on...
I just wanna tell you, if she doesnt like you cuz you have rough hands...then you dont need her. I mean unless you have hands that feel like running garbage disposals, you shouldnt woryr, just be gentle when touching nipples, clit, and other sensitive spots ok?
Are they clean? Are your nails trimmed? The pumice in the shower and lotion will work. Rough isn't bad if carefully handled. One does not expect a man to have very soft and smooth hands. However...
Hmmm... basketball or sex...basketball or sex.
It is your choice but I know which I'd choose!
Just a thought!
im more concerned about how clean they are rather than how rough...although if he's starting to grow scales then thats a different story...
a backrub from mildly coarse hands can be a turn on...
Youd pick basketball EEK...its so obvious!
To me, it is important to take good care of your skin. Just like you faithfully
do your ab workouts show your skin the same attention. Most cosmetic
stores will have a variety of good products.