so i'm a gymnast and I recently started dating a new guy and I want to please him but I'm not very expierenced and I have really rough hands that are all callousy ( spelling?? ) from doing bars.
I don't know what to do because I dont want to disgust him. Bad enough that I dont know what im really doing.
i need some adivice.
he knows my hands are a little rough but i've never really let him see how bad they are.
Maybe you should just ask him if your rough hands bother him? If he's a good guy, he'll just give you and honest answer so you'll have something to go on.
As a guy, my hands have gotten a lot nicer and softer thanks to skin lotions, so maybe that would work for you too. I know my ex used various lotions and she had this really nice soft hands that felt soo good when she touched me.
i can't really use lotions. If my hands get soft they will blister and rip open.
and that REALLY hurts.
:(
Just approach your guy about the subject. If he really does respect you and your dedication to the sport, he'll be supportive and most probably just live with the fact you've got rough hands.
Honestly, the texture of your hands probably isn't going to be a priority for him.
I know I wouldn't care if your hands were rough as long as you were carefull with them.
A question, please.
How rough are your fingertips? If not, then use these to touch and caress him rather than your palms.
Regardless, the glove idea leads me to this suggestion: instead of using latex gloves, place the bedsheet between you and him and caress him through the sheet. One plus example of this is that when you finger his nipple(s), he will receive much more intense stimulation through the material than by direct contact. Use the edge of your fingernail in addiltion to the fingertip, and you'll see what I mean. The same reaction should hold true for many other areas of his skin.
The material need not necessarily be a sheet, it could also be a layer of pajama tops or a T-shirt, shirt, etc.
Give these suggestions a try, all the while knowing that when he chose you he accepted the entire package, rough hands and all. Please do not dwell upon this unless he does.
Enjoy....
He knows you are a gymnast. He should know what that entails. If that bothers him, you are better off without him.
Try thin rubber gloves. The white ones that Doctors use. They are sometimes coated with powder and can be very sensual. Now with that said. You are a gymnast, why worry about the hands. Do a back bend. Kidding, being a bit cheeky. If he is the man for you then it will all be a-ok