normally i only where lower cut clothes because it flatters my figure better. i like to be more covered though just not so far as to have my clothes up to my neck. I dont like it when men are quite blatently looking at my chest, but i just tell the guy off. I suposse if you wear things like that it's to be expected, so i just deal with it, although i have to say it's the nicer guys that are more respectful and dont stare. I tend to talk to thoughs guys far more.

Generally speaking the aim of low cut tops is accentuate your figure as a whole not just to show of your boobies. It is quite obvious when guys spend TOO long looking at your boobs. It can be flattering but it can also be uncomfortable.

If women didn't want to be seen (IMHO), they would dress accordingly. It is beyond retarded for women to wear practically nothing or fail to cover and expect men not to look. It's a free world, so if you're showing, we're looking. It's as simple as that.

Mind you, in a face to face conversation, well, one should look into her eyes, 95% of the time. The rest, enjoy the view! ;)

[SIZE=3][FONT=Times New Roman]Why do you think they invented dark sunglasses? *joking*. A gentleman should be discreet when he steals a glance. [/FONT][/SIZE]

Ladies watch as well. Don't kid yourself.LOL
Especially those in tight sports uniforms......LOL

If you're talking to me you had better be looking at my face even if I were naked.
Unless you have a death wish.
Does that answer your question?

I'm petite with large breasts. I expect people to look, it's like staring at a car accident. You can't help it. But you better believe I'm taking note and chances are I won't be talking to you again if you stare for too long. Take a glance, two at most. Don't let the only thing I remember about you is that you kept staring at my chest. By the way, the low cut shirt isn't for you...it's so I don't look like I have a uniboob. : )

Probably not the best response in the world........At some point in time, class
and dignity have to play into the equation. Treat a lady as such and more often
than not you will get a favorable response.

Even if her blouse is very low cut, she's still a human being instead of a piece of meat and should be treated as such. If you're going to GLANCE, then fine. But don't talk to her chest.

Reread Sarah's post. She seems to have it spot on.

I concur that women are not pieces of meat. However, they are amongst the most fascinating things in the universe, so I'll look. Always have, always will. If that makes me an ass, well ass I am. That said, to fail to gaze upon one of the world's wonders (when she happens by) is just damned foolishness. One may never again have such an opportunity.

Cheers!

Also, when I'm at the supermarket, I only really look at the price. Pretty much all the meat looks the same unless it's rotting or something.

I'm just sayin'.

I think that maybe "looking" or glancing is much different than glaring. LOL

I get your point We_Suit_One

I walk the busy streets of Chicago as a part of my commute.

.75 miles each way

So I see many beautiful women everyday.

I guess im a people watcher, I like the variety and nuances of people and the best way to observe it is in the eyes.

I make eye contact with nearly everyone who is not wearing sunglasses. Shorter with men for obvious homophobic/awkward reasons.

I dont feel like women mind eye contract from a stranger. I can tell a women does not like it when she immediate looks to the oppposite direction and does not return. but i don't feel that is so threating or anything worth her complaining about.

Most women look down at my feet and then back up at my eyes or straight forward.

And I have noticed that a similar type, possibly could even be called a pattern of similar looking and shaped women lock eyes and share a smile.

I don't know, my imagination/thoughts are very perverted and far from innocent but I have no agenda beyond curiosity and this idea that people should not pretend like they don't exist and have no sexual attraction to strangers. cause we all do! and maybe these attractions rarely match up and people can feel weird about it. but as long as your not doing it in a threatening and or insulting way then whats the harm?

I resist my urge to check out a women body unless its clear she has checked out mine. Otherwise eye contact/profile observation only. Eye contact is just ****ing hot anyways. I can see naked women on the internet for financial and guilt free. But into a strangers eyes as they see into your own..... AWESOME! it makes me feel like were all the same weird awkward insecure beings confused and always a little lonely.

I think you are on the right track. That is what I believe Sarah was saying.
Like I mentioned previously, reread her reply and I think it will help.

Any additional thoughts for him Sarah???

[QUOTE=cvh0828;219477]i'm curious. Can a woman tell if a man is looking at her chest when they are talking. If a woman is wearing a lowcut shirt or half open blouse is that what she really want men to do. Should men say something if it's to open when we talk to them or just keep our eyes up and don't look down? Any feed back from women out there?[/QUOTE]

Well, if I am looking a person in the eyes and they aren't looking in mine, it is pretty easy to tell where they ARE looking. Women like to be noticed for their "goods," certainly, but if there is blatant gawking and prolonged staring, it is quite rude, IMO.

Again, it goes back to have a touch of class and treating a lady like a
"Lady" and not something else entirely. Of course, we all notice attractive
people which is cool and commonplace. But the gawking is another case
entirely.

Sarah your response is much anticipated............

Good points. I think the original intent was the glaring or staring. Of course, most
would notice or view attractive people from both sexes.