i remember i used to be in a tight-knit group of girls in grammar school. and we all decided we would never give a blowjob. we thought it was disgusting and penises were "ickie!"

and now we're all in high school and all except one of us has given at least one blowjob. its extremely ironic, because i was like the ring-leader of the "penises are ickie"-club and now i REALLY cant get enough of giving head. i even get weird cravings to go down on my boyfriend.

but its all about what you're ready for. i think its great that your boyfriend is so cool about it. but some people are givers and some people are recievers. shmeeeh!

Yea I was that way too. Mostly just nervous I would do something wrong.
I would start out as maybe just some oral as foreplay or something. Not intending there to be an "ending" or finish him off.
I was hesitant at first b/c of the cum issue and would I gag or spit and hack everywhere, lol.
Im still not totally comfortable giving a BJ all the way to the end and Im still not comfortable with taking cum in my mouth.
I do use oral as foreplay tho.
Some guys might say if you start you better finish...but I dont see it like that. My b/f doesn't always "finish" me w/ oral either, just uses it to get me warmed up

well, i'm not a female, so i can't speak for women when i say this, but maybe you "chicken out" because of what the penis and oral sex on a man symbolically signify...i know some girls who won't do it because it's like the act that people associate with "dirty favors" and such...or maybe you think about him peeing out of it...or maybe you're afraid he won't like it...but, this time speaking as a man, i can guarantee that he'll like it...it feels good!...and if he really likes you, he's not going to criticize you or think you're a slut or anything...and the more you do it, the more comfortable with it you'll become...so give it a try!...or if you just don't feel like you can, then don't...sounds to me like your boyfriend is cool and doesn't mind either way...

If you're really freaked out by it, take your time. Start by just giving it little kisses, work up to licks, then work up to taking it little by little into your mouth.

When I say to "work up" to it. You could just kiss it during one session, just kiss and lick the next and so forth.

Yeah, your bf seems cool, so I'm sure any attempt you made, even if they are tiny steps would be appreciated.

The only way you can f*ck up a bj is to suck too dang hard. That can be kind of painful. You don't need to rival your Hoover. You'll get the hang of it. Just work slowly and feel comfortable. Then once you get more comfortable, there is TONS of imformation on this site about giving really mindblowing bj's. But that's down the road a bit, get comfortable with it first!!!