Hi, me and my girlfriend are looking into remote toys. We want something that she can wear/ have in her when we go out to add a little fun. I keep suggesting the several remote bullets that are on the market, but she wasn't sure that would do the trick. She says "It would just be in there vibrating, not really hitting and specific spot." She not very interested in vibrating panties. We were both looking at the Venus Butterfly which is a clitoral stimulator held on by harnesses around the legs. She is very interested in this design, but we're not sure if it would remain on her clit while walking around or dancing. Does anyone have any suggestions or experiences with any of these devices? Thanks!