My first time was about a year and a half ago. My gf and i had been going out for just over a month i think, maybe two. I had eaten her out once or twice before, and enjoyed that, but besides that we'd just make out and do a lot of random hand stuff. I wanted more, and i wasn't getting head, but that issue didn't even come up. at the time i didn't even like the idea of her giving me head (seemed disrespectfu to me somehow, but i don't have that feeling anymore). I wanted sex. I was 18. I'd been masturbating and looking at porn since i was 12. and i'd been dreaming of sex since about that point, but kind of had a "wait till marriage" attitude until i was 15, when i had my first girlfriend, my first kiss, and i'd fingered my first pussy, the latter two happening on the same day. So after that, i decided i'd get laid by the time i was 16, then it was 17, and it still hadn't happened because i was so shy and couldn't bring myself to asking a girl out. anyway, i stopped thinking about girls when the one fell in my lap. so a month and a half in, the idea came up in conversation. She was hesitant since it was my first time (not hers by far), but she decided that it was fine. so i had my condoms, and we had the evening picked, and we did all the foreplay stuff we had done in the weeks past, and then the moment came. I pulled out a condom, put it on, and awkwardly slipped into her. And then i pumped. didn't feel anything. no stimulation at all. i pumped some more...maybe i needed to warm up or something...and more. and then i got frustrated and pulled out. and that's why my first time sucked.

My first time wasn't really special... well it was on my couch when we were home alone, I was 19 and he was 22. I sort of just wanted to do it, out of curiosity. We'd done other stuff and I just felt ready to try it. It hurt for a while, but then it started to feel a little bit good, but then he finished. Later, he turned out to be a jerk, but I don't regret doing it because he was respectful and waited until I was ready.

I guess the only thing I regret is having been too curious... I sometimes wish I'd saved myself for my bf now, because I love him so much... even though he's only my 2nd, he's told me before that he wished he'd had waited, and me, so we could have the special moment together, but it's still great anyways. I actually haven't thought about it in a while, until I saw this post...

As long as both parties are of the age of consent I don't see the problem. I was 17 and lost my virginity to a 30 year old man. Your job title has nothing to do with.

I was 22, I lost it to a 40 year old. *shrug*

And I don't see how it's abusing power. It's not against the law to cheat on someone.
It wasn't against the law for him to sleep with a 17 year old either. Both were over the age of consent.

But whatever.

OK, first off I don't care what two people do if they are both consenting, age isn't a big factor....the idea that made me cringe was that he was a man of the law. My personal feelings are that a person of the law shouldn't be breaking vows and doing it with a 17 year old. To me that is abusing power, and frightens me a little. I wasn't a virgin at 17 so I am not saying it is right or wrong. Just stating my opinion that it to me wasn't the right thing for him to do.+

Hey the more people humping in the world the better...I am all for it. Just this incident made me uneasy.

tease i didnt say i had a problem with it but really.. when you think about it..30 year old? with someone UNDER the age or 18.. being a legal adult.. seems ODD to me.. but hey whatever LOL it isnt my problem

First time was a first for both myself and my bf at the time. We had talked about it loads, and done other stuff, had been going out for ages and one night just took things that bit further. Stayed together another 4 months before the relatinship fizzled out.

Could have been worse, could have been better- but it was right at the time.

If you're both legal to do it, what difference does it make?
You may find it gross, others don't. Just because you don't like it doesn't mean that no one else should either. Age is just a number to some people.

Well, actually, the age of consent were she lives, is 16. So while she was technically "underage", it was legal for her to do so.

Ok, I am glad that you're first time was so exciting, but I have to be honest.  A 16 (17 by the time you had sex) year old underaged girl and a married man of the law....I do have a problem with this.

My first time was wonderful, it was his first time also, so needless to say it was short, but I'll never forget it and I know even though we're not together, he'll always remember me since I was his first also.  No regrets.

I will always remember my first time. It wasn't at all romantic or with that special person. I just was tired of being a virgin and wanted to have sex. A couple of my friends introduced me to him and there was instant sexual tension. He asked me if I wanted to go for a drive with him and of course I said yes. Along the way we stopped to get some beer and started drinking them during the drive. (Hold back on the lecturing please.) He was quite a bit older than me. He was 30 and I was 17. I had a thing for older men and he happened to be black as well which was even more of a plus as I find black men very attractive. We ended up parking by these picnic tables at a public park. I should probably add that there was a guy playing basketball just feet away and I'm sure he knew exactly what was going on which was even more of a turn on.
We had to try a few different positions to try to get him inside of me. It was really hard because I found the myth about black men to be quite true so he was very well endowed. At one point I was bent over the picnic table and my head was thrown forward so hard my this hat i was wearing fell off and I grabbed it and bit down on it so to keep from screaming so loud. It was a great experience and I will never forget it or regret it!

I hope I forget my firs time. I was sort of engaged to this later I figuredout abusive Thai boy...can't even call him a man. HE couldn;'t get hard for a while, and didn't particularly cared about getting me excie. Then it finally happened, I actually didn't feel anything...how sad. About a year later, then I saw the light and dumped him, he actually dared to ask me if he was really my first.
Long story short...I got a wonderful bf now...sex is amazing...I actually can feel stuf and he takes care of me, and his dental record finally faded from my neck...so I think he's having a long night ahead of him today

I'll never forget my first time.
While it was very painful, I know that I was well cared for as if I told him to stop, he would, because he didn't want me to be in pain. And even if I didn't tell him to, he could tell it, and stopped. He always made sure that I was ok.
I also lost it to the person I wanted to so that made it even more memorable.

Oh and yes, commenting on your post, men in a cop uniform, definately a good thing. lol.

Oh and starri just thought I'd add this. The guy was living with his longterm gf. He wasn't married like the first guy you were with but pretty damn close. lol.

hmmm mmy first... *thinks* was with my bf of a year andsome.. i was 13? or 12? yeah 13.and... we were home alone upstairs.. and LOL it was on the kitchen table...i duno i dont regret anything...it just happend, im sure we shoulda waited cause we both werent ready but it happend. LOL

tease, im not sure its so much the age of "consent" its the thought of a 16 year old with a 30 year old man. makes you wonder if he would go for a 12 year old.. kinda deal.