Pretty simple to explain the situation: me and my boyfriend want to have sex (yes we are ready, mature, know consequences etc.) and we've tried on two occasions now but we always have to stop because it really just hurts too much.
The first time I just got the head in before I made him stop and the more recent time I thought it was all in, looked down and saw there was more to go (he's pretty big) and I just gave up and we ended up having an everything-but sessions.
Question is this: what are some things I could do to make it less painful? Stories, tips, anything would be much appreciated.
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First, relax. Maybe have a drink or two if you think it will help.
Bring some extra lubrication, like KY or Astroglide.
It always helps to have a little extra...
Be relaxed AND aroused! Never forget the arousal factor. Lubrication will help and you may not actually have any pain the first time - some women don't.
What you absolutely MUST do is protect yourself from pregnancy - get on BCPs BEFORE you begin playing with males.