As far as Sex during her period; if you use condoms there is no issue & should be used through out the entire month as well.

I believe you need to express to her the same thing you said here, minus being lazy, and find out what changed. Often, to get into intercourse women younger will give the B.J. However, once they figure they like the full round of intercourse, the BJ's [until the point of you orgasm] slip to the wayside. Meanwhile Fellatio is great to get him going and until the point of orgasm is great for the days when having a heavy cycle--you may not want sex but wish him to be fulfilled. Regardless, you need to discuss this with her outside of the bedroom & find out what has changed; or she is just comfortable now where she does not feel she has to attract you to the same degree? Complacency?

Do you every go down on her until the point of orgasms? You could try just having a night when you give her oral and then she if she wants to return the favor. The best thing is to talk to her about it, but don’t be too forceful.

There are some women (I included) who adore menstrual sex. Others consider it nasty. That is up to the two of you. Ever gone down on her on her period?

You two need to negotiate what each wants. Some women absolutely refuse to perform oral on a man. There are compromises that you two need to work out.

What do you consider a blowjob? Is it start to climax or is it somewhere in the middle. I enjoy oral sex, giving not receiving. I guess it's more foreplay, then we move on. I should say did, I stopped seeing the last guy I was seeing awhile back. See if she is willing to do this, you do this and I'll do this.
As far as sex when she is on her period, that is up to her. And to you. Some women like some don't, some men like, some don't. I didn't mind when I was young, as I got older it got less and less desirable. By the time I was 30, I was having lots of female issues, so sex wasn't all that no matter what day it was. It seemed that if I thought sex, I would bleed. I a total hysterectomy at 32.
Talk to her, hopefully you can come to an understanding that will make both of you happy and fulfilled.

Is it weird that I cannot get my boyfriend to orgasm from a blowjob anymore? Like, I will SERIOUSLY be down there for two hours some days and he will greatly enjoy it, but it's like he just cannot finish. Could it be because I give so many or because I do it for so long??

llb-do you always do everything the same way and in the same order? Try mixing it up a bit order-wise, try moving on to another location and coming back. One thing I've discovered with my bf is that the longer the 'approach', to a certain extent, the better the result. Don't just get to business....let the anticipation and sensations build by slowly working your way down there, doing things to the rest of his body on the way down.

That's exactly what I do. I am quite thorough in my oral approach. Ever since the first time I did it, I've worked on improving it because he gave my oral a A- and my hands A+. Now months and months later, a blowjob is his favorite thing. And we do EVERYTHING, so it's gotta be good.

But I will build him up and build him up and he keeps feeling like he's gonna cum, but he never can. He either has to finish it with his hand, or we have to finish it with some form of penetration. It's weird though. When I first started doing that with him (my 'A-' times), I could ALWAYS finish him off in no time. But now that it's so good, I can't?

** Just to clarify, he wasn't just like "Oh, you're blowjobs aren't that good." I asked him straight out how good they were just so I knew if I could improve or not. He's not a douchebag like that. =)

[QUOTE=Tom1990;225978]My girlfriend always use to tell me shes never gonna give blowjobs because she doesn't like the idea of them.
But then she went through a phase when she gave them me alot, and really enjoyed it. I wouldnt even have to ask and she would do it
Then the second we had sex. she never gave me one again. And i ask her why and she says, "theres better things to do with it"

Also, am i a tramp for having sex with my girlfriend when she is on her period, We just put a towel on the bed. Like i can't get any infections or anything for having sex with her on her period?

Thanks[/QUOTE]

This is just my personal experience-
*About 80% of women will give head-oral stimulation of the genitals as foreplay

*about 20% will give a blowjob- oral stimulation of the genitals terminating in orgasm with the penis inside her mouth

*about 20% of women just do not want their mouths and a man's genitals getting close to each other.

If you went through a phase when she gave you a lot of blowjobs enjoy the memories. It is possible that she was blowing you to keep you from going elsewhere. Now that you are having coitus she does not feel as threatened because she reasons that what men really want is coitus. You can try to encourage her to resume the BJs, but if she has said she doesn't want/like to do that your success is going to be limited. Unfortunately, for you, the more you harp on the subject the more she is going to resist.

Now this is both sneaky and difficult- you can try to bring her into situations in which she is in contact with women who do give BJs and and if they don't enjoy the act itself at least enjoy making and keeping their men satisfied and openly discuss it. You can HOPE that this will lead her to believe that MOST women do indeed give BJs and feel good about it. Under NO circumstances do you want her to find out how few actually give BJs.

If you think this sounds like manipulation-it is. It was also manipulation when she gave BJs and then stopped and now won't. When we smile and say "please" to get what we want we are also manipulating. There is nothing at all wrong with manipulation as long as it is not done with the intent of causing harm.

Interesting that she says, "theres better things to do with it." I have heard that exact same line myself.

There is nothing wrong with having sex while she is having her period. You have already read that some women feel more turned on at that time. If it is OK with both of you and you don't have any religious qualms about it then rock on! You won't get any infection from her as long as she isn't carrying an infection which you would get while she isn't on her period also.

OK, that is 120% of us. That is a lot!

The only time I can recall chanting the phrase "there are better things to do with it", as a female, was if I had a partner which turned out to be a selfish one & thinking the second time by saying this might encourage him to do things differently. In other words; sex was initiated, he got what he wanted [the blow job] and left me hanging. This was while I was quite young & he did not know much better. To date, have not encountered the same behavior.

So, to the OP...I ask; if she did give you a BJ, do you reciprocate or is the "session over"? This would certainly turn anyone off--one sided sex. Otherwise, encourage her to do it and let her know you enjoy & are willing to reciprocate or meet a happy medium. You can get her done well through intercourse if that's what she enjoys & you she can finish you with the BJ of the lifetime. I think much has to do with your openness with satisfying each other to the fullest extent.

[QUOTE=Brandye;226115]OK, that is 120% of us. That is a lot![/QUOTE]
LOL!
Actually the 20% who give blowjobs are included in the 80% group who give head-whether as foreplay or a full blown job. They comprise 25% of the ones who are not averse to mouth-penis contact.

Again these data are based on my experiences with partners born in North America and Europe in the places I have lived and visited. Results may be vastly different for other people, but I doubt there is much variation.