Hi All.
I really hope someone can help me with this. My sex life has always been bla.... simple and the same everytime. I was with the same guy for 10 years and newly single I bumped into a friend i havent seen in years and we decided to "hook up" although i thought he showed me a really good time i felt like I didnt return the favor. Next weekend we are going to a hotel for the night and I want him to have a time he'll never forget. Any suggestions and please give details. you can email me back at [email]redsoxrock901@aol.com[/email]
Thanks so much !!!
Well, if you have a hotel room, i would suggest suprising him and dress up (if thats your thing). I would love to see my g/f in a little nurses costume, with oils, quite music in the background...ooo im jealous :D
what he said
that's what i do when i want to suprise my bf. i either put on some lingerie, or my old halloween costume (school girl)....maybe even play the role too.
If you want to use minimal effort, I would suggest prolonging foreplay ... oriented toward him more than yourself. Visual aspects are always nice, and fulfilling a fantasy is always a good idea, but extending the period of time he's turned on may lead to a more pleasureable result...
Or just stick with the nurse costume. :)
[QUOTE=curious Al]Well, if you have a hotel room, i would suggest suprising him and dress up (if thats your thing). I would love to see my g/f in a little nurses costume, with oils, quite music in the background...ooo im jealous :D[/QUOTE]
Try not to stop with just the uniform. Why not beg, buy, or borrow, a stethoscope, and BP cuff/meter? Save the stick from a popcicle to use later as a tongue depresser. Give him a complete "physical" and if you are so inclined--check his prostate, giving him a prostate massage, but only after his penis and scrotum have been checked and rechecked in preparation for evaluating the condition and quality of his sperm. Do all this when he is extremely aroused and not before. Give each other a leisurely soak, bath and/or shower, first.
Prolonging foreplay is a good thing; although, do not shortchange making out and all the kissing and caressing that goes along with it.
My standard response to spicing things up is read, together, The Joy of Sex. It is a thirty year old book but it is back in print. If that does not keep you busy for a while, nothing will.
YuP!!
But how ya gonna get people to read a book who won't even read through something longer than a couple of paragraphs, if that? Ya can lead a horse to water, but....
Good suggestion, I hope people do read the book. Keep on keeping on recommending it.