hi everyone this is a bit long winded but i really need some advice. ive been with my girlfriend now for 5 months, and she has never, and i mean never in her life had an oragasm! to begin with i thought it was just the fact she had very little experience (she had onyl ever done a lil bit of oral with one guy), so im her first real lover. we are really close and talk about loads, but i started doubting her levels of enjoyment as she never orgasms, as a result i was put off so i never enjoyed it much. ive never had the problem where a woman has not enjoyed and come (even though it sometimes take time). any way my girl friend always wants me to pleasure her and loves me going down, fingering, and sex, and she enjoys it you cna se she is but she never climaxes. the other day i was asking about it and she admitted to me she had never had an orgasm in her life not even through her own stimulation! this was a major reliefe to me and showed that it wasnt just my technique, but she sed she loved it and always wants more. now thast its all out and open and sorted she seems to enjoy it a lot more, and we can both relax, and last night she was prehaps the closest se had ever been. but i still feel a bit down about it, is it likely to be my fault, or is it just the fact that with some people it takres time. we know what each other likes and have had pleanty of time spent exploring and having fun, but she just cant seem to climax.
please any advice or reasurance would be much appreciated
Sat, 06/18/2005 - 13:34
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really want advice


Id say don't worry about it...especially if she says she's happening and always wanting more
maybe check out this link
somewhat similiar situation...good luck!
Wow that sucks it's normal I mean it's just rare.
Unlike men - women have to connect the hardware (body) to the software (brain) before orgasm can occur and this is done by masturbating to the point of orgasm. No matter how long it takes.
But the point is that her orgasm, or not, has nothing to do with you.
and there are more than few threads on this topic.
kate,
You dug up a six year old thread. About a quarter of us never experience orgasm. Sad, but true.