while my girl and i were having sex i ejaculated, at i was sensitive at first, so we just foreplayed which is us having dry sexing me rubbing my penis on her vagina, until i get hard again but when i did get hard and i tried to stick it in her vagina the tip of my penis was too sensitive and i started to get soft :s...this is the first time it happened to me den we would foreplay agian i would get hard but as soon as my hard penis would feel her wet pussy i would start getting soft :s why is that? do i have to rest for a bit and not foreplay? is my penis not iummuned to having sex after ejaculation? and the weird part is i ejaculated again but when we was having da dry sex rubbing my penis on her vagina...i wanna know why i cant stay hard enough again after i have ejaculated once like im still horny but my penis just dont wanna stay strong lol
Wed, 09/29/2010 - 03:43
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REALLY SENSITIVE AFTER I EJACULATE THE 1st TIME :S WHYY?
Every guy goes soft after they have ejaculated from sex or masturbation.
I say your excited with seeing your girlfriend naked and your penis being near her vagina.
Your better off to focus on your girlfriend for a little while if she still horny and or in the mood to get going. Sadly a guy can't with keep going to ejaculate again.
I think its like so many hours again before you could ejaculate again from sex or masturbation.
I know with me i can ejaculate and wait for about 10 minutes or so and get hard again, if i do that, i dont ejaculate from the second time, its just nice to make the female happy so they orgasm more.
I have found with me having sex in the morning and that afteroon / night works better then doing it again straight away.
hopefully doc can give you some more insight with what to do
Many men and women become hypersensitive after orgasm. For the men, this is the glans penis that becomes sensitive; for women, the clitoris. Some cannot tolerate any touching for several minutes after orgasm.
You are best advised to simply wait a while until sexual activity is resumed. Do not rush and allow a bit more recovery time.
I shall say this again - your brain experiences new and unusually high degrees of pleasure as pain. Your brain doesn't know what to do and becomes confused. Every time you stop upon feeling this "pain" your brain is trained to believe it is pain and thus the perceptoion hardens.
What you should do, is breathe deeply, try to relax, go through this period and keep doing whatever you were doing that is plasureable and it will become pleasureable - train your brain to understand that this is pleasure and not pain at all. Once you get through to the other side, you will never experience it again.
This is how both men and women become multi-orgasmic.