Okay. I have know this guy for about 7 years just as friends. He is 24 and I am 21... Now background on him he was hurt really bad awhile back and freaks out at the thought of relationships. He told me when he really likes someone he wont talk to them for awhile to kinda get over things then he didnt talk to me for a month. We got drunk the other night and I went home with him, after not seeing him for a few months. We messed around for about an hour with oral sex and what not and he was pretty hard. We went to have sex and he lost his erection. So we messed around more and it happened 2 more times. We were pretty drunk and after the first time he was like I want to go smoke some weed for a little bit. Now he isnt like a strung out pot head he only does it on poker night usually. Anyways like i said we tried a few more times and same thing. Four hours later we kinda gave up and cuddled up and went to sleep. Well in the morning he woke me up and we tried again and it was all good until we went to have sex and he lost it again... This time he rolled away from me and went to sleep. SO whats the deal, stress bc he likes me? whiskey dick and too much pressure to perform the next morning? OR ME? He told me he wanted me but lol this whole thing is making me develop a complex.... and then when I got up to leave he acted normal, well I texted him to see if he wanted to hang our friday and I got nothing and saturday night i just drunk texted him a hey and I got nothing. So a few questions... whats the deal with the sex (Everything else was good), when should i call him or try to talk to him so I dont seem to pushy, and by actually really liking him does it sound like a lost cause?