I have realized, I love sex, but for me, its like a circle. I like it so much, I'm scared about it, so I've kinda become a prude (sort of) and totally don't want to push my partner's away. Any hints on things I can try to help me get over this issue? I'm slowly learning some things I like that I wouldn't allow myself to like before, but whenever I'm asked what I want, I choke. I can't bring myself to say what I want because I don't want to be looked at like some kind of freak. Its happened before, which is probably why I am the way that I am.
Fri, 11/05/2010 - 01:03
#1
Realizations
Welcome to the SI101 Board and its Forums. I hope you will enjoy participating. Please begin by familiarizing yourself with the FAQs, the Posting Guidelines section, and especially the Index, all found at the top of the main screen. The Index contains links to helpful informative insightful, as well as how-to information that discuss the most common questions and concerns people ask about--like yours. If you click on the site's Home Page, you will find even more information, including the illustrated animated sexual positions!
More than likely you are scared, or perhaps more appropriately--apprehensive, because of a lack of information. This is fine, it is why "sex manuals" have been written and can be found in libraries and at your local bookseller's. It is also why this site exists. We are a community of ordinary people from all corners of the world who have come together in order to provide information to others coming up thru the ranks, so to speak.
I recommend that you read each of the articles listed in the Index and add the information to what you already know. Knowledge is empowering. If you would like a book, check out "The Joy of Sex".
If you have specific questions or concerns, please do not hesitate to ask if you cannot find answers in the articles or specific forums.
Enjoy,
-doc