ok. i need help. i am 15 a female and am ready to lost my virginity. my friend that i've known since i was about 2 and i decided that it would be a good idea to lose our virginity to one another. i decided to losen up myself a little by masturbating. i found that a few times doing this i peed! is that normal? will that happen when we are having sex? please help.
Sat, 07/14/2007 - 23:15
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Ready to lose my virginity - Help Me Please
Not if you go to the bathroom beforehand.
Gosh, if you can't answer these two questions, I think you are way too young to loose your virginity. Why not be a girl for a few more years and enjoy your teenage years before embarking upon adult behaviors with their responsibilities.
A good many women who lost their virginity as a teen regret it at a later time. Please do not be one of them. I urge letting your mind catch up to your body, maturity-wise. If this plea falls upon deaf ears, then be responsible and use two forms of high reliable birth control. This must be a condom for him and either the pill, patch, shot, diaphragm and spermicide for you. Absolutely do not rely upon one method because kids your age have a much greater chance of bringing new life to the earth than at any other time.
Excellent advise doc! My wife and i were eachothers first and i have never come across someone who has regreted making their spouse their first, but have come across several people that have regreted having sex with someone just because they "felt it was time". dbayyxo, dont do this if you want to keep that same "friendship" with your best friend. Im not saying that it will be ruined, however there is no doubt in my mind that it WILL change, and possibly for the worse (or be a lot more awkward). PLEASE take docs advise.