I've been dating this guy for 2 months and I've noticed that he doesn't always have an orgasm. He is 56 years old. I am 47. The sex is great, no problem there, but at first I thought he was just controlling and prolonging the point of orgasm. But, now I noticed sometimes he does not reach an orgasm at all. I'm not used to that. I guess the age is a factor?
Thu, 03/29/2007 - 14:53
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Reaching Orgasm
Not always age, sometimes it's prolonging it and it's a missed opportunity, difficulty with stimulation, medications, stress, etc. Talk to him about it, sometimes it's requiring a different type of stimulation.
One of the few males still in my life and whom I see about three times a year is in his early sixties. Over the fifteen year I have been seeing him, there has been a significant decrease in his erection and output. He, too, is a doctor and we have discussed this. It seems a normal part of his aging and had its onset about the age of your friend.
We see other for a weekend every several months. That used to mean Friday night, Saturday afternoon and Sundy morning. We still try but it does take more stimulation and, even when not "successful," he expresses great pleasure.
Brush up on your oral skills!