First off, I like the woman on top, there is no need to be paranoid. As for having too short legs. My GF will sometimes presses her legs against my waist for "traction", and don't worry about leaning over it brings all sorts of fun things within kissing range. I have found it more enjoyable for me to "**** back" she seems to enjoy it alot as well, you may want to make sure your partner knows it's OK to get involved, as just laying there gets a little old.

One of the tricks many guys use including myself to keep from climaxing too soon is to suddenly go deep and get the sensitive head away from stimulation, however this is typically more of a random push inward and not a constant pounding. If you want him to let you do your thing just say something to the effect of "just relax, I'll take care of it" at the on set of festivities. You may wish to make it sexier than that, but you know what the situation is/will be better than I thus you make the call. It is typically considered better to get the guy close to climax then back off, doing that repeatedly typically provides for a higher climax.

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This information given is done so as solely my opinion, your mileage may vary, and it's more than likely worth what you paid for it.

Using your feet is great.

I believe that's called "Asian cowgirl" style, or something. Anyway, I'm sure it's on the main site. It's a fun variation of the traditional.

It makes you stand out! :)

body envy?? BODY WORSHIP, dammit.
So what if he's been with millions of women - he's NOT ever seen you fully as YOU are - all you give him is timid shy bouncing and am I doing this right? PFFFT.

So you don't like your breasts, and you're shy about letting him get a good look at you - Honey, when they're that close - they think you're stunningly gorgeous - just ask him!

Most men are overjoyed to be getting the totally unbridled full-bore unlimited sexuality of a passionate woman. Let him see that in you!

Apologies, I my have misread, does your discomfort stem from his penis (I.E. too large, unpleasant angle, etc) or is it an emotional discomfort? The latter being my original premise for response.

Jayna31, I'm going to be blunt, and Let you in on what throws us off. First off your breast, there is really only 2 ways to throw a guy off when it comes to your breasts.

1) having more or less than two of them. While some may prefer one size over the other, we like them all.
2) Having in the past, gotten "bargain basement" breast augmentation where the Doc made the incision directly under the nipple. Which prominently displays the scar, that looks like a pair of one-eye smiley faces coming at you.

If you are uncomfortable during intercourse it will show, and make you partner wonder if he is doing something wrong. So do what your are comfortable with, you sound like you know what you are doing when it comes to the "Cowgirl" position. So go with what you know. Remember if your enjoying it more than likely so is he.

And what EEK said is completely true. You seem to have a fire in you about him let it show.

[quote=Jayna31;216329]that is pretty jacked up of me to put envy huh? you know what i meant ;-P

... and it is both nato. i don't like my boobs so thats the subconscience thing of not like it and its physical thing of not being able to do it. not his size. we have not been together yet. but i dont know, its like my knees cant straddle him and rest on the bed comfortably. i dunno. i just cant get the rythm down right or something in that position.[/quote]

Jayna;

If you are bent on doing this...get on the floor and try which positions works for you...try to play on the floor alone...most women cannot get right up when beginning. Need strong legs and muscles with flexibility and figure out feet positions--you will most likely get cramps in you feet or legs if not accustomed to this... Mostly try female superior positions with you nearly leaning over him like your holding a head board--brush your hair on his chest. He should be able to hold your hips to get a rhythm going. If your legs are really short--thinks of doing a squat position on the bed BUT he needs to hold on to your hands so you don't go flying. EEK once said think of this as "Horseback riding"...now you don't care for your breasts?

It's about YOU & HIM. And having a good time. I am with EEK--body worshiping. If you are this nervous & compelled to feel awkward about your body; it's difficult to relax!

[quote=Jayna31;216339][quote=sera300;216334]Jayna;

If you are bent on doing this...get on the floor and try which positions works for you...try to play on the floor alone...most women cannot get right up when beginning. Need strong legs and muscles with flexibility and figure out feet positions--you will most likely get cramps in you feet or legs if not accustomed to this... Mostly try female superior positions with you nearly leaning over him like your holding a head board--brush your hair on his chest. He should be able to hold your hips to get a rhythm going. If your legs are really short--thinks of doing a squat position on the bed BUT he needs to hold on to your hands so you don't go flying. EEK once said think of this as "Horseback riding"...now you don't care for your breasts?
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okay i think somewhere along the lines my point got lost. i love being on top. i can't do the regular cowgirl for some reason. my favorite is the asian cowgirl and the lunge. i guess it was more of a question... do men think it strange that i catnt do a certain (cowgirl) 'normal' position? i also love love love doggie style. and one thing that annoys me is when they start pounding away when im doing my thing. it makes me think hes not enoying it enough. i love sex. im not shy about doing it. i was just wondering what thoughts were on tose two things and how to better take control when it comes to them.
as far as my boobs, yeah i dont like em but it doesnt stop me from doing the positions i like. otherwise id be missionary all the time or wear a bra.[/quote] Gotcha. SO do what you enjoy to him; have not seen too many men disapprove! The pounding away thing I have found comes from a man's lack of experience. Just take control of the situation w/him.

Like I said - guys really aren't going to think that much about it as long as you release your passions and participate with him.

For what it's worth, my advice is to just enjoy it. Don't worry about whether you're doing it right - its hard for girls to get it wrong! Just have fun. If he's a good lover, he'll please YOU and make you feel amazing and then you can just worry about that.

And RE: your breasts. I don't know any girls who think theirs are good. My girlfriend thinks hers are saggy and I think they're ****ing hot! So I wouldn't worry about it too much ;)

Just be glad that you can enjoy being on top. My poor wife had had 2 knee surgeries and it hurts too much most of the time for her to be on top.

I think guys will appreciate whatever position on top makes you comfortable. I find the woman being on top gives her great control of the speed. Use that to your advantage.

[QUOTE=sera300;216340][quote=Jayna31;216339] The pounding away thing I have found comes from a man's lack of experience. Just take control of the situation w/him.[/QUOTE]

Either that (or a combination of) maybe the guy feels as if he is just lying there, and wants to show that he's putting some effort into it also.

Machine - doesn't matter, if he pounds away from underneath, then he messes up my rhythm and gets growled at.

"Just lie there and take it like a man, baby!"