Hi, i have a few quick questions about the g spot. What are some tips for giving a girl a g spot orgasm through fingering?? And how would the girl know if she has had the orgasm??? Does it feel like the Clitoris orgasm? Oh and when women talk about orgasms during sex, is this the kind? Any advice is helpful! I appreciate any tips! Thank you!!!
Fri, 08/24/2007 - 03:53
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Questions about G Spot...CONFUSED???
Start here:
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/pleasing_her/19807-what_we_know_g-spot_e...
Not all women can have an orgasm with g-spot stim. Some do, though and it comes with time & experience on her behalf.
It's a very different sensation then clitoral stim. I find it much stronger & clitoral orgasms are "boring" to me compared to one from intercourse. But it will vary w/each woman.
Most women are happy to just have a orgasm, then there are those who achieve one with ease.
Clitoral orgasms, for me, are appetizers; while G-Spot and Posterior Fornix orgasms are aaaahhh! - just the thing! But not all women are as into this as I am. She has to be both relaxed and aroused which can be difficult to achieve sometimes.
BTW I wrote a book on this topic entitled Orgasm.
I read that the G spot is like a muscle so it needs to be 'trained' to enjoy the stimulation. So it will take time.
I haven't had an orgasm through G spot stimulation but when touched and I am highly aroused after a clitoral O I feel very dizzy. I am working towards something!
I got another question. lol Sorry if i'm annoying. But this one is for the women... My new girlfriend says when i finger her, she hits her peak and doesn't go over the top like with clitoris orgasm. Does anyone know whats happening or why its happening? Oh and any suggestions to cure this problem!......Thank you guys for your previous replies (Sera, Evil Kitten, and K4L). They are much appreciated!
It generally pretty easy for women to orgasm through clitoral stimulation; however, penetration (what ever method you try) is much more tough for many. There are other women who need both at the same time to orgasm, or can do one or the other, or both. She probably feels good when you do it but not able to reach orgasm. Try the fingering/digital stimulation while doing oral on her.
Continuing the "outercourse" while beginning penetration, of any kind, is so important. She MUST be both relaxed and aroused to orgasm. If you make sure she has an orgasm with each tehcnique, chances are she'll reach the "incandescent" state where anything at all will make her climax. Try it in this order: Foreplay, manual stimulation, oral stimulation, then oral with manual stimulation of the G-Spot, then caressing her G-Spot with the head of your penis and then caressing the posterior fornix with the head of your penis. Men with stamina can alternate between the G-Spot and the posterior fornix making sure she is completely satisfied before they too finally climax. Make sure she relaxes, breathes deeply and lets the feelings roll.
That's the first round. For the second round, she gets to show you what she can do for you!
And a GREAT time was had by all!
Hey Evil Evil Kitten, this might sound silly but where is and what is a girls fornix??
[quote=Shake-n-bake14;191930]Hey Evil Evil Kitten, this might sound silly but where is and what is a girls fornix??[/quote]
Do a search on this site...it's located to the back of the vaginal wall (where it boarders the rectum)...and behind the cervix. It's the posterior fornix for your search. Or do a google search...