I've been with this girl for a while now and we started getting more comfortable in bed lately. Last night we were in bed kissing heavy and a bit of dry sex/humping, and she seemed to be enjoying it quite a bit. . . anyway, I put my hand down her pants and started rubbing her a little bit until she was wet. I was just rubbing her lips, I asked how she done it and she moved my finger up to her clitoris (I THINK, lol) and I was just rubbing that up and down, and round. After about 2 minutes she was just breathing really, REALLY heavy and then let out a big sigh (of relief it sounded like), and she moved my hand up to her body away from where it was and started kissing me. After that I asked her if she'd ever had an orgasm before and she doesn't know.
So I asked her when she touches herself when she knows when to stop, she said something along the lines of 'it gets to a point where if i keep touching, it just feels good and I become so relaxed I go to sleep almost straight away.'.
So I have no idea if that is an orgasm or not, any help with that one?
There are different degrees of intensity with orgasms. They can be screamers; legs shaking, body jerking (not gunna happen EVERY time... keep that in mind)... they can be middle of the road; awesome, but somewhat less intense (far more likely)... or they can be a little more run of the mill; still very nice, just not as intense...
I think your girlfreind could have had an orgasm, it was just more like the last one than the first. I've had moments like that, and just because she wasnt screaming with pleasure doesnt mean it wasnt great! Be secure in the knowledge that you did your work well
Now... a disclaimer.... this is coming from my own personal experience... others could disagree or choose to describe it a completely different way. Ultimately, as the first poster stated, everyone is different. The only one who can say for sure that your girl had an orgasm is her... if she's new, she's got a good start and I'm sure she'll figure things out eventually
i guess this is kinda a difficult question to answer because everyones different! the fact that she says she doesnt know if she has orgasmed says to me that she hasnt. i think if it happens you know. but she did pull your hand away so maybe she did orgasm and was too sensitive afterwards for you to continue touching. so to answer your question i dont know! sorry i wasnt much help, thats just my opinion