Since no-one here knows me, I was hoping I could get a completely honest answer to a question that has been bothering me.
I have a pretty serious tickling fetish, and also a bit of a foot fetish. I've been told by plenty of people that women are usually pretty tolerant of this sort of stuff, but I can't help wondering whether some wouldn't see it as a bit weird or offputting. I've never had this reaction before, but I've talked to very few people about this and I don't have that much experience with women. On the other hand, are there many women who find weird fetishes along those lines exciting?
So I was wondering how people here, and women especially, react to this kind of stuff (I know different women react in different ways - I'm trying to get a feel for how specific people react individually). And would you see it as a positive, a negative or neutrally in a prospective partner? Please be honest - I'm trying to get genuine responses, so sugar-coating things to spare my feelings makes the exercise pointless (I've already heard the sugar-coated version).
Tue, 04/24/2007 - 13:35
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Question (mainly for women) - Tickling fetish
For myself, I would not find it to interesting in a potential partner. If he was a great guy, had these fetishes, I would just have to let him know I am not into it. I don't want to be tickled, I find it annoying, I cannot imagine going to bed and tickling him and getting aroused. As far as the foot part, I am not going to suck on his toes. But a foot massage is about the end of it.
Hope this helps you.
Agreed.
As one of the mentors here, let me tell you that tickling is a form of torture. The person being tickled has had his/her control taken away. So, if the two of you aren't into sadomasochism in which one or the other of you enjoy receiving pleasure through pain or discomfort---"forgetaboutit", to quote Arnold.
S & M and/or B & D while all about control, must have controls, the most crucial of which is a "safe word" that can be spoken when enough is enough and it is time to immediately stop all such activities no questions asked.
A miniscule amount of tickling can be fun for a tease or a bit of a tussle; however, it should not be a prolonged activity. In short order, tickling becomes distracting and uncomfortable.
If your fetish is "pretty serious", I'd examine why you want to do this to a person you love. That said, what is with the foot fetish? Do you like tickling feet, or, is your fetish more about massage?